I ended up in the hospital and then THIS happened –

I ended up in the hospital and then THIS happened –

Tired of earning LESS than everyone else? Sick of wasting time on stuff that doesn’t result in more income? I know how it feels to work your ass off and see little for it. I worked for MONTHS, making next to nothing in my business, and I mean working upwards of 20 hours a day. I gave away tons of free coaching, worked on my sales techniques, engaged with and grew my community, was extremely visible on social media, and gave up sleep more times than once.  I was tired as hell, but I was also DETERMINED to win. So I worked, worked, and worked some more, and then ended up in the hospital as a result.  What I learned from that experience was that, although I was doing all the right things, my mindset was ALL kinds of WRONG. What I believed about money was that –  Money was only for those that worked 24/7Money was only for those that never saw their familyHaving lots of money meant you were greedyAccepting money from someone was like stealing food from a baby’s mouthIt was impossible to make a lot of money in a short period of time Can you see how this would COMPLETELY block me from receiving money? And even if I DID receive money, I would work my ass off to feel better about it, because making lots of money was, in my mind, tied to working constantly. Hence the burn out and hospitalization. As strange as it sounds, I’m glad I landed myself in the hostpital that night because it forced me to really examine what was going...
I was LYING to everyone and then they found out

I was LYING to everyone and then they found out

WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO STOP TRYING TO PLEASE EVERYONE? One big, HUGE, mistake that I made with my business was trying to make everyone happy.  To do this, I had to pretend to be someone I’m not, just so everyone would like me.  And I did this for YEARS. Too many years to even count. In fact, I probably did this for most of my life.  Even though I said I didn’t care what people thought of me, I really did. And deep down, I wanted everyone to like me. I wanted everyone to see how perfect I was. Except that’s not what happened.  Sure, I did end up with many people following me, many “fans” (I hate that word) that looked up to me, many people that wanted to BE me –  But the problem was that they were seeing someone completely different from the REAL me.  I said, did, even WORE what I thought other people expected and wanted from me with the hopes that they would like me. I didn’t speak my mind, I didn’t say what I wanted to say, I didn’t even stand up for myself when the situation called for it. A year ago I had what many would consider the perfect life A booming businessHealthy, happy kidsA great relationship with my husbandOur cute little houseAn awesome area to live inLots of people following me and looking up to meMoney in the bank There was just one problem - I wasn’t happy.  I wasn’t happy because I wasn’t able to be MYSELF. To be the person I was BORN to be.  My mindset...
One of those posts where I call you out on your shit…

One of those posts where I call you out on your shit…

I try to be nice.I try to be polite.I try to mind my own damn business.  But there’s moments that I just want to SCREAM in your face, shake you up, and knock some goddamn sense into you when it comes to money.  If I ever hear you say “I can’t afford it”, you’re dead to me. If I ever hear you say you can’t invest in something until you “find” or “manifest” the money, you’re dead to me.  If I ever hear you say you need to CHECK WITH YOUR FUCKING HUSBAND before you can invest in YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS, you’re dead to me.  I’ve helped people for dirt cheap. I’ve done free coaching. I’ve done hour long sessions for $100 when my usual rate is $1,000.  I do this because I want to HELP. Because one of my biggest desires is that ALL women are financially independent and can invest in whatever they want, whenever they want and they DO NOT need to ask for fucking persmission. I do this to educate you and show you what’s possible.  I’ve helped hundreds of women for next to nothing, simply because I want them to walk away a changed woman who is ready to take on the WORLD and put what they’ve learned into action. But unfortunately, most of them don’t. Because they’re too caught up in their own shit, thinking they can’t afford it, it’s too expensive, they don’t have the money - and so their shitty money mindset is blocking them from doing the work to make more money.  So that they CAN afford itDo that it’s...
The people you need to ELIMINATE from your life right now

The people you need to ELIMINATE from your life right now

Right now there are people in your life telling you that you’re not good enough. Telling you that your dreams are stupid, impossible to achieve, irresponsible to even consider.  Most of the time, they say these things in the slightest of ways, so it’s almost hard to even detect the negativity and doubt. But it’s there.  And it’s important to REMOVE these people from your life so you can focus on your goal and make shit happen for yourself. Having those energy-drainers is going to hold you back from everything you’re working so hard for right now. Hearing that you’re not good enough, that you’re crazy, that what you want to achive in your life is impossible, that shit is gonna weigh you down and hold you back FOREVER. And even though you may not be able to completely eliminate all of the energy-drainers from your life (your parents, for example), you can definitely limit the time you spend around them.  Spending time with, or following people that are negative, judgemental and condescending is going to wreak havoc on your mindset and put you into a state of DOUBT and FEAR. Two things you do NOT want to be feeling if you want to impact millions, make incredible money, and live a happy life. No matter who you areNo matter what you’ve doneNo matter where you liveNo matter who you knowNo matter what you say There will ALWAYS be people in your life that don’t believe in you.  That’s the bad news.  The good news is that having those people in your life, if only for a short while,...
Want to be successful? This is HOW it’s done –

Want to be successful? This is HOW it’s done –

WANT SUCCESS? YOU HAVE TO WORK FOR SUCCESS.   You can’t just WANT it.    You can’t just wake up and hope that, today, things are going to be different.    You can’t just cross your fingers and hope things work out in your favor.   You need to DO. THE. WORK. and you need to do it every single day, without fail. And if you can’t do that, then you’re not cut out for entrepreneurship.   You’ve got a HOBBY, not a business. And you rarely make a huge impact and a ton of money with a HOBBY. So if that’s not what you want, then you need to start taking things a LOT more seriously.   When you show up EVERY DAY and give 100%, you have no choice but to be successful.   It’s FUCKING EASY to make money online. And you know why so many people fail at something so easy? Because they can’t hack it at showing up every day and doing the work necessary to be successful.    The messaging The journaling The money management The mindset work The lead generation The community building The content creating The sales activities The admin tasks The visibility work   It’s too much for some people. They want to take a break. They want to go on vacation and forget about work for awhile. They want to shut down for the night. They want to SLEEP.   People that think that way are RARELY successful.    Successful people –    The ones who are making 6, 7, even 8 figures with their business –    They...