by Cassie Howard | Jul 31, 2016 | Visibility |
Here’s something for you to imagine – WHEN YOU GET TO THE PARTY AND EVERYONE’S LIKE “UH, WHO IS SHE?” Dun dun dun. No one knows who you are. Which makes you unapproachable, which leaves you broke. You don’t want to be the person who shows up to a party (online OR offline) only to be completely ignored because no one has a damn clue who you are. Now, I’m not saying that if you’re new to the scene and you start showing up that people will ignore you. There are nice people in the world that will welcome you with open arms. But those open arms don’t translate to fists full of cash. Not right away, anyway. That’s why it’s so important to practice the ART of showing up. When I first started coaching, my initial plan to was to DOMINATE the industry. I wanted to be on every social media platform, in every group, in everyone’s inbox. The goal was to FLOOD their screens with me and my message. Did I do that? In a sense. But I lost steam because I didn’t know how to show up properly. And so, I spent over a year trying to figure out how the hell to show up as ME, and make money from doing so (instead of just giving all my shit away for free and then asking people to hire me). Thankfully, I’ve figured it out. You don’t get to choose when to show up if you want to make an impact. You don’t get to choose when to show up if you want to make amazing...
by Cassie Howard | Jul 30, 2016 | Work At Home Mom |
Maybe right now you’re feeling unimportant. You’re feeling ignored and invisible.You’re feeling like you’re always 2 steps behind. Maybe right now you’re heading into that dark space of not feeling like you’re enough. Like you’re not special. Like you’re not needed. And if that sounds like you, follow me, I’ll have your back. I’m not afraid to tell you how it is and how to improve your current situation FAST. I certainly am not one to sugar-coat anything for anyone, because that shit is pointless, but I WILL help you dig yourself out of that hole you’ve been stuck in. It will require hard work.It will require sacrifice.It will require constant focus. But if you can commit to those 3 things, I can commit to putting you through the ringer and pushing you through until you hit the TOP. Where you won’t just be able to TASTE success, but you’ll be eating it up like a motherfucker. I WISH I had someone kick my ass the way I do my #bestofthebest clients. I don’t want someone to hold my hand and tell me everything is going to be okay. I want someone who will say “listen, you’re fucking shit up bad, but you can change things”. Why tiptoe around the real issue, which is that YOU are doing all the wrong things, and THAT is exactly why you’re not successful. That’s exactly why you aren’t bringing in the money you want. That’s why you’re living month to month, spending constantly, and not getting much benefit from that spending. It’s time to put an end to that shit once and...
by Cassie Howard | Jul 29, 2016 | Making Money |
There are 3 questions I want you to think long and hard about today – The first question is WHY. Why do you do what you do? Why do you constantly get back up when you fall down? Why do you push through the HARD, so you can live life more easily? Why are you a true hustler that is making shit happen in her life? Seriously - think about it. Ask yourself: WHY? The second question I want you to ask your self is WHEN. When will it be enough? Is it ever enough? When are you going to take things to the next level? When and how are things going to improve? When will you be living the life of your dreams (and why not NOW)? Timelines, deadlines, NUMBERS – They’re crucial. Get clear on what they are. Finally, the last question is WHAT. What makes you worthy of the success you so desire? What makes you special? What DRIVES you? What is the reason you want to live better, live more, reach more, make more, IMPACT more? What needs to change in your life to make these things happen? The why, the when, the what – Are all questions that are super important to check in on with yourself regularly, yet it’s an exercise many never do. Not consistently enough, anyway. The reason you’re likely not living the life you want right now is because you haven’t been asking yourself these questions and then ACTING based on what the answers are. There is no path perfectly paved to success. You have to drive over the rocks just...
by Cassie Howard | Jul 28, 2016 | Work At Home Mom |
SOMETIMES YOU JUST NEED TO STROKE YOUR EGO AND ACCEPT HOW FUCKING AWESOME YOU ARE Yesterday I got into a funk. An “I’m not good enough” funk. What I wrote sucked. What I said to clients sucked.What I thought about my business sucked.What I complained about sucked. I got too caught up in paying attention to someone else and how THEY were rocking it and how, compared to them, I wasn’t. I was going the comparision thing again, and as I’ve said before, that’s NEVER a smart move. Because then you start doubting yourself and your own abilities. You start doubting just how amazing you really are an how many lives you touch every single day just by showing up. Luckily, it’s easy for me to recognize when I’m doing this kind of thing pretty quickly now, and it wasn’t long before I was back in the zone again. I picked up my journal and started writing whatever came out. I am awesome.I am fucking incredible at what I do.My clients love me. I love my clients and my community. I rock the stage every time I take it. Opportunities come at me all the time.I show up and happily do the work.I change lives every day. I am a fucking superhero. I kept going. Pages and pages of me telling myself how I am the baddest chick on the block, how I am a super successful woman with a mission, how I am changing the world. How I’m fucking AMAZING at everything. Ego stroking x a million. Once that was done and I put the pen down, I was LIT UP. On fire....
by Cassie Howard | Jul 27, 2016 | Work At Home Mom |
IT’S NOT ALL ABOUT YOU! YOU HAVE A JOB TO DO. If you think that your life is all about you, you’re mistaken. You were put on this earth for a reason. You have a job to do. A message to share. Lives to change. I never grew up thinking I wanted to change the world. To make a difference. I just wanted to me, to do my own thing. But then I grew up, got my shit together, and realized I DO want to change the world. I want to rule the fucking world and make an impact in the lives of millions, if not BILLIONS. I want to give to the poor. I want to help those without a voice.I want to share the value of healthy living.I want to solve financial problems for everyone. I want to CHANGE THINGS. I share my message every day because I want people to know just how easy change can be. With one simple tweak, with one new addition or subtraction from your life, you can be living as a completely NEW and improved person. You see, we can all change lives with our words and our actions. And that is why you were born. To CHANGE LIVES. To change the world. To make a difference. You can! You will! You must! You weren’t put on this Earth to spend 8 hours a day at a job you hate, come home and eat dinner, watch TV until you pass out, and then wake up do it all over again, living for weekends and vacations. Using sick days as fun days just because...
