If there’s one thing you should focus on every day, it’s THIS

If there’s one thing you should focus on every day, it’s THIS

People ask me all the time what my “secret” is to making money online. I have family and friends that ask me to teach them how to do it. I have clients that ask me to teach them how to do it. I have strangers online and off that ask me to teach them how to do it. There is no secret.  I’ve said it before and I’ll say it a thousand times - making money online is really fucking easy. That being said, YES, there is a certain way you want to do things if making A LOT of money is your goal. And the first step is believing in yourself. I can’t tell you how important this step is. If you skip it, you will fail. If you don’t start by believing that what you want to achieve is possible, you won’t ever achieve it. You will find ways to sabbotage your success. I’ve seen this happen to so many people and it makes my want to cry because I know their dreams are big, and I know they are amazing at what they do and that they CAN achieve those dreams, but they block themselves from that success simply because they didn’t believe, deep down, that they could do something. There will always be naysayers that tell you that something you want to do cannot be done. Ignore them. Focus on yourself and BELIEVE in yourself enough to make it happen. When you have such a strong belief, then NOTHING can stop you and it’s like you become invincible. Magic just starts happening at every turn...
Are things feeling hard right now? This is what you need to do –

Are things feeling hard right now? This is what you need to do –

When business feels hard, I want you to put your head down and get to work. When making money feels hard, I want you to put your head down and get to work. When creating new offers feels hard, I want you to put your head down and get to work. When selling all day every day feels hard, I want you to put your head down and get to work. When showing up every day feels hard, I want you to put your head down and get to fucking work, bitch. Stop complaining that shit is hard. Don’t be a whiner. Whiners don’t grow, they don’t succeed, they don’t achieve their dreams Do you want to make money, succeed, get rich, make it big?  Then stop with the complaining, stop with the excuses, and get to work. For how long? For as long as it takes!  Right now you’re settling. You’re in a comfortable place and stretching yourself to get to that next level is too much for you to even think of. So you stay right where you are. Like a grumpy toddler that doesn’t want to get into the bath or his bed, you stand in one place and refuse to move.  Want to reach new heights? Want to do the things you’ve always wanted to do and be the person you’ve always wanted to be? If so, you’d better learn to get uncomfortable, because comfort will NOT serve you.  Learn to be uncomfortable and push yourself out of that comfort zone, and you will achieve great things. Always.  I can’t tell you how many times I’ve...
Do you BELIEVE or do you HOPE?

Do you BELIEVE or do you HOPE?

Something I’ve noticed about entrepreneurs is that they either BELIEVE or they HOPE.  And the difference is that when you HOPE things will be great, when you HOPE things will get better and improve, they rarely do, because deep down, you don’t BELIEVE that it’s possible. And so it’s important for you to spend time every day working on your mindset and visualizing everything you want to achieve in your life –  Seeing it, as if it’s already manifested Being there, in the moment, realizing all that you will have accomplished Feeling, deep down, that you are ALIVE and excited about your life You need to BELIEVE with everything you’ve got that you can achieve anything.  Without that belief comes failure. And yes, there are going to be many failures that happen, but that’s a part of life. The more you fail, the more you succeed. You are going to fail your way to SUCCESS! But that won’t ever happen unless you have the right mindset. I used to be one of those people that thought this “mindset stuff” was weird. My first coach was a mindset expert and she kept trying to get me to set up a mindset practice in my life and I kept refusing and just asked for help on marketing my business. I thought she was a bit of a weirdo. But eventually I gave in and said I’d try doing some mindset work for a week, and what do you know? That shit worked. And my business has never been the same. Once I got a mindset routine in place and I started...
Stop questioning every little thing and just fucking do it! (Creating offers that sell)

Stop questioning every little thing and just fucking do it! (Creating offers that sell)

How many times have you sat down to write a blog post, or create content for your community, or put together a new offer - only to end up obsessing over every little detail, second-guessing yourself, and end up not doing anything at all. If you answered “a lot”, you’re definitely not alone. Perfectionism and lack of confidence can be a real bitch. But the thing is –  If you are not regulary just throwing things out there, being open to criticism (it WILL happen from time to time), being willing to fail, you are going to go nowhere fast. Meaning –  The more you question every little thing you do, the less likely you are to make money. I’ve worked with clients in the past that want me to hold their hand through EVERYTHING. They would message me every day (seriously), asking “did I do this right?” and “what do you think of this?” and although yes, I can answer those questions, YOU need to trust yourself, too. Instead of asking for my approval, ask for your OWN approval and then just tell me what you DID already. 😉 My role as a mentor is to help you with strategy, but more importantly, to kick your ass and make sure you get stuff done. I do NOT allow my clients to be perfectionists. Perfectionism will KILL your productivity.  Wondering why it takes you so long to write an email or blog post? You’re trying to make it perfect. Wondering why you can’t seem to post on social media multiple times a day without feeling brain dead? You’re trying...
This is me giving you permission (you don’t want to miss this!)

This is me giving you permission (you don’t want to miss this!)

Never is it enough for you to just be OKAY with your life. Never is it enough for you to SETTLE for anything, for any reason. Never is it enough for you to IGNORE your true desires. Never is it okay to let OTHERS tell you what you can and cannot do, be and have. Never will I let you do those things to yourself. To succumb to the shit other people do, the people that are unhappy, the complainers, the whiners.  Never will I let you stop. Never will I let you forget. Never will I let you ignore. Never will I let you hurt yourself by forgetting why the fuck you were put here on this earth, which is to share your message, to shout it from the rooftops as loud and obnoxiously as you need to in order for people to LISTEN and be impacted by it. Believe me, you were born for a reason and that reason is to change the world with your message.  You were BORN for this. You were MADE for this. So don’t you dare try and quit.  Yes, it’s hard. Anything worth having is hard. Yes, it’s scary. As are many other, less important, things in life. Yes, it’s uncomfortable. Comfort = mediocrity, and you were NOT born for that shit. Yes, there are going to be times in your life when shit hits the fan and you just want to give up. To walk away and forget it. This world will knock you to the ground so many times and IT HITS HARD. But who you are as a...