by Cassie Howard | Oct 31, 2016 | Blogging |
A little over a year ago, I sat down to write a really vulnerable post & email that I was not only going to send to my community, but also to my friends and family. I was scared. Nervous. Second-guessing. Thinking maybe this wasn’t such a good idea afterall. Maybe I should just keep my mouth shut and say nothing. But something inside of me pushed me to go through with sharing this part of my story, the part of my story that I was SURE would turn people against me, but also the part of my story that I knew people needed to hear. More specifically, I knew ONE person who needed to hear it. I knew that it would impact ONE person’s life in a positive way. I didn’t know who they were, but I was sharing my story for THEM. As I finally mustered up the courage to WRITE, to be open, honest and vulnerable, I spilled my guts and let EVERYTHING out. I made it very clear that although I may appear as this “nice” girl who is super shy, I have a wild side and I’m NOT as nice as you think I am. I was hiding this “secret” for almost 8 years and now, I was ready to share it. Not for me. Not for anyone in particular. But for that ONE person, whoever she was, that I KNEW needed to hear me say that – HEY, I WAS IN PORN! I LOVED IT AND I AM PROUD OF THE FACT THAT THIS WAS SOMETHING I DID WITH ME LIFE. As soon as I...
by Cassie Howard | Oct 29, 2016 | Making Money |
I talk a lot about going ALL in, about doing whatever is absolutely necessary to get what you want. But this morning, as I was saying it again to someone in a private conversation, I was like – I need to explain to people what GOING ALL IN actually looks like, because I see some half-assed attempts at it, but rarely ever see people that truly go ALL the way in. And at first it made me sad, but now it just makes me angry because if you are here, if you are in THIS community, you are REQUIRED to go ALL IN. And if you aren’t willing to, then you need to go find a place that accepts half-assed attempts at success. And that place isn’t here. You see, the women in this community? We are brave We are strong We are full-time hustlers We are committed We are passionate We are investing We are learners We are implementors We are LEADERS We are going a mile a minute ALL. OF. THE. TIME. We never slow down. We never, ever consider stopping. We hustle, hard, all day long. And we LOVE IT. And going ALL IN is just what we DO. We know that going all in is the ONLY way to find that massive success that we want. The fame, the fortune, the impact, comes from us going ALL IN, and so we do what it takes. Day after day. I go ALL IN by waking up at the crack of dawn practically every single day, even on weekends. I go ALL IN by getting on camera every day...
by Cassie Howard | Oct 28, 2016 | Blogging |
IT’S ALL ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL I was recently thinking about a conversation I had over a year ago with a coach who told me that my “energy” was messing with my success. My “energy” was preventing me from getting bigger results, faster. I also remember thinking this woman was a nutjob. “Energy is everything“, she said. And I rolled my eyes and then completely tuned her out for the rest of the conversation. I couldn’t listen to this weird ass hippie shit for another second longer. But what she said about my “energy” never left my mind. I could not get that damn phrase out of my head. So I decided to give an hour of my life to read about it. And when I did that, I realized quickly that she was right. I WAS messing with my success. And the whole “energy” thing wasn’t as strange as I thought - it was just SCIENCE. And it was fucking RIGHT, more importantly! The more I read about it, the more things I saw in my life that were all kinds of wrong. The way I acted, the way I thought, the way I spoke.. was OFF. Without realizing it, I was putting up a wall that kept the HUGE success I wanted, out of my life (not to be confused with the wall Trump wants to put up to keep Mexicans out). I was scared of failure, and showing it I was lacking confidence I was charging less than what I wanted I was being too nice I was was lying about who I am as a person...
by Cassie Howard | Oct 23, 2016 | Business Basics |
Have you ever wondered why someone else was successful and not you? Has it driven you crazy trying to figure out exactly what they were doing that you weren’t? Maybe you even felt jealous of them because they had what you wanted – The money, the fame, the recognition, the impact, the overall feeling of satisfaction and having things finally go YOUR way. Do you even KNOW what it is that you want? Or are you just going after what you think you SHOULD want, or after what someone else has. Who’s life are you really living anyway? Is it yours? Or is it your parents’? Your teachers’? Your partner’s? We all have the opportunity to do something with our lives, but let me tell you – No matter what you accomplish, it will mean NOTHING if it’s not something YOU decided to do. Something YOU wanted. And looking over the shoulder of someone more successful than you doesn’t necessarily guarantee success, either. Even if you mimic the exact behaviours of someone further ahead than you are, you will not be happy. Why? Because it ultimately didn’t feel good to YOU. Stop chasing dreams that you don’t want to chase! Stop going after what you think you should instead of what you actually want. I can tell you from experience that you get what you want much faster if it’s actually YOU who wants it, and not someone who just put the idea in your head. Every day you get to make a choice – You can do what you you need to do to make everyone else happy ...
by Cassie Howard | Oct 22, 2016 | Making Money |
Yesterday was a regular day for me. Other than the fact that I had a full VIP day instead of multiple calls, everything else was the same. I still had to get up early to do my journaling, messaging and money work I still had to do the morning routine and get the kids off to school I still had to do my videos, my content creation, my lead generation tasks I still had to do my all day long messaging and sales activities But there was one thing that really stood out as different, and it actually happened first thing in the morning during my journaling time. I set a financial goal that just FELT right instead of one I thought I was SUPPOSED to make. I wrote – Today I received $8,500 USD in cash. It is so easy for me to make money every day! I made the decision. In my head, it was a done deal. In my gut, I knew it was going to happen. I didn’t dwell on it. I didn’t make a plan for HOW the money would arrive. I simply set the intention, really BELIEVED it was possible for me, and then ran the day like usual. I’ve always been big on the hustle, and working my ass off to get what I want, but there was something about yesterday, where I was able to just RELAX a bit. Not physically, of course, because UGH, BORING. But mentally, I was calm. I wasn’t stressed. I wasn’t constantly thinking “how will I make $8,500 today? What should I do? OMG it’s already noon...
