by Cassie Howard | Oct 14, 2016 | Blogging |
After speaking with my clients, there seems to be a theme happening this week… A general fear of not being liked. And I realize that this is a common fear for many people, myself included sometimes, but here’s the thing you really need to realize – If you can’t show up AUTHENTICALLY as YOU, and you are scared of being different from others that are out there, you will never TRULY succeed because you will be faking it. You’ll be putting on the show you THINK people want to watch, when in reality, it’s a show you don’t want to star in. And sure, you can make a money doing this. Being the “perfect” person you believe people want to see. You can make money showing up as this cookie-cutter version of yourself that does and says what she’s “supposed to”, instead of what she WANTS TO. And if money is your only motivation, then hey – There’s nothing I can say or do to stop you. But if you want to actually have an impact on those around you, then you need to stop being such a pussy and start being YOURSELF, regardless of whatever anyone else may think of who you are. Because you ARE different, and that’s actually a GOOD THING! Think about it – Do you want to keep meeting the same type of person over and over and over again, or are you going to get bored out of your mind and start going absolutely mental? No one wants to know 50 of the same person. That’s insanity. We want to have a variety of DIFFERENT people...
