FEARS, PERSISTENCE, AND GETTING PAID TO BE YOU!

FEARS, PERSISTENCE, AND GETTING PAID TO BE YOU!

Fears. We all have them. No one is afraid of nothing. And funny thing –  A lot of our fears are the same.  Not being good enough Not knowing enough Not making enough Not impressing someone Not making a good first impression Not having the inspiration to do the work Not loving what we do anymore You’re not alone in your fears. Whatever you are fearing, someone else is fearing the same. That being said –  No matter your fears, you need to take action anyway.  FEEL THE FEAR AND DO IT ANYWAY.  Don’t allow fear to take over your life. Don’t allow your lack of confidence stop you from doing what is necessary to get the results that you want. Because fears are normal. They will always be there.  They’ll change. They’ll get worse. They’ll get better. They’ll change again. They come and they go.  And the only thing that can stay consistent is how you react to these fears. You can choose to give in to them. You can allow yourself to be afraid and be paralyzed by that fear. Or you can punch fear in the fucking face and take that action anyway. Every action you take determines your future. It’s up to you to make the choices and take the actions necessary to create the lifestyle you truly want. Because you can say you want it  You can say you’ll do the work You can say you know what it takes You can say you’re gonna make it happen You can say it’s not a problem But if you’re not proving that on a daily...
I COULD DO THIS ALL DAY…

I COULD DO THIS ALL DAY…

I COULD DO THIS ALL DAY… Writing, speaking my mind, saying whatever I want. Telling you what you need to hear, whether you want me to say or not. Calling you out on your bullshit. Not allowing you to play small, give up, call it quits, cry like a fucking bitch because something is taking too long to work. (Quit your whining and work harder!) Being the BOSS. Being the only one in charge of my life. Selling all day, every day, never coming up for air.  Creating, creating, creating, never being afraid of giving away too much for free. Not letting anyone stop me from being me, the real me, the true me. Ignoring fake bitches pretending to be someone they aren’t because I CAN TELL and you look pathetic. Working on “vacation”, working in the car, working in bed, working on a plane, working on the beach, working wherever the fuck I want, because I CAN. Bring in thousands in sales daily, with ease, with flow and however much I want. Only work with clients I love.  Saying no to potential clients I don’t want to work with. Letting go of clients that got through my filter and were awful fucking people and I gave up dealing with their shit. Surrounding myself with women that have the same mindset as me, that are building their empire ALONGSIDE me. Waving BUH BYE to people in my life that I can’t stand.  Driving around in my BOSS ASS TRUCK that makes me feel amazing every time I just look at the damn thing.  Make money in my sleep, while...
WHY ARE YOU AFRAID TO BE DIFFERENT?

WHY ARE YOU AFRAID TO BE DIFFERENT?

After speaking with my clients, there seems to be a theme happening this week…  A general fear of not being liked. And I realize that this is a common fear for many people, myself included sometimes, but here’s the thing you really need to realize – If you can’t show up AUTHENTICALLY as YOU, and you are scared of being different from others that are out there, you will never TRULY succeed because you will be faking it. You’ll be putting on the show you THINK people want to watch, when in reality, it’s a show you don’t want to star in. And sure, you can make a money doing this. Being the “perfect” person you believe people want to see. You can make money showing up as this cookie-cutter version of yourself that does and says what she’s “supposed to”, instead of what she WANTS TO. And if money is your only motivation, then hey –  There’s nothing I can say or do to stop you.  But if you want to actually have an impact on those around you, then you need to stop being such a pussy and start being YOURSELF, regardless of whatever anyone else may think of who you are. Because you ARE different, and that’s actually a GOOD THING! Think about it –  Do you want to keep meeting the same type of person over and over and over again, or are you going to get bored out of your mind and start going absolutely mental? No one wants to know 50 of the same person. That’s insanity.  We want to have a variety of DIFFERENT people...
GET OVER YOURSELF, TRUST YOUR GUT, AND DO WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE

GET OVER YOURSELF, TRUST YOUR GUT, AND DO WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE

Instead of being scared that something could go wrong, get over yourself, trust your gut and do what needs to be done. Instead of worrying about what others will think of you, get over yourself, trust your gut, and do what needs to be done. Instead of playing the victim game and always bitching & complaining, get over yourself, trust your gut, and do what needs to be done. You see? The only thing that matters The only thing that really makes a difference Is getting over yourelf & your bullshit fears, always trusting your gut, and doing whatever it takes to get the work done that NEEDS to get done if you ever want to make the money and the impact that you want. We all have fears We all have doubts We all have worry But if you allow yourself to give in to those things, then your worst nightmares, fears, everything? It will all come true.  You create your own reality with the words and images you put in your head, which is why it’s so important to pay close attention to what’s going on in there! And it’s important to protect yourself from your negative thoughts. Once you can do that and get clear on your message that you need to share with the world, you can montize just about ANYTHING and impact the lives of thousands all over the world with the words you say.  But that will not happen if you’re allowing fear to stop you.  And I’m not saying you shouldn’t FEEL fear, because it’s a natural human emotion and it would be...
NO MORE WAITING. NO MORE SECOND-GUESSING. STEP THE FUCK UP AND DO WHAT IS NECESSARY NOW!

NO MORE WAITING. NO MORE SECOND-GUESSING. STEP THE FUCK UP AND DO WHAT IS NECESSARY NOW!

There is a time to sit and think and there is a time to go, balls to the wall, full out and ON FIRE. You have to know when to do WHAT if you want to succeed in this game called entrepreneurship. Not enough good can be said about sitting in silence, letting your mind lead you down the right path for you.  Because, as I just said to someone the other day, “the answers are always within you“. You don’t need outside validation. You don’t need to second-guess yourself.  I honestly believe that a huge issue for a lot of entrepreneurs is not taking action, and not taking action is usually because they are doubting themselves and need someone else to tell them that their ideas are valid and that they need to DO IT.  You see, unless you have a mentor that is behind you, constantly busting your ass to get shit done, you’re not going to. UNLESS youhave the willpower to make it happen and the belief that you can do anything. My strategy when it comes to creating content, showing up, selling, and being THERE for my community –  Listen to the intuitive nudges around what to say/do ACT on said nudges BELIEVE said nudges are within me for a reason CONTINUE to act on said nudges until I no longer feel them  It’s simple, really –  Say what you feel called to say and say it LOUDLY. Don’t back down. Don’t be afraid to say something you know you need to say for fear of hurting someone’s feelings or making them uncomfortable. If it needs...