by Cassie Howard | Dec 14, 2016 | Work At Home Mom |
I’m married to someone who has always believed you need to be “realistic”. That you have to plan for the worst case scenario. That you need to know the details of everything in advance. That you must save, save, save, and THEN you get to play. I always thought that this was a great thing, because he could help to “balance out” my wild nature. My “let’s just do it, who gives a fuck what happens next” personality. But in the last year, I’ve realized that just flat out CLASHES. It’s not helpful. It’s not a great thing. And I’m really honest about my feelings around this – I believe I don’t have to wait to have what I want I believe I am powerful and can create anything I want and need I believe there is no such thing as work/life balance I believe you are creating everything in your life every day, maybe without even realizing it I believe you get what you ask for I believe you get what you focus on So many conversations have been had around this. So many times I’ve had to “prove myself’ and prove that “this stuff works”. And happily, things are much different now. 😉 Sometimes, hard conversations are necessary. And sometimes, things turn out better than you expect! I know it’s possible to have everything you’ve ever wanted. I’ve done this many times over, especially when someone tells me I CAN’T. Are you fucking kidding me? I CAN’T? You don’t think I can? I’LL SHOW YOU. And it works. Sometimes I just need to be a show off....
