What to do when you don’t know what do to

What to do when you don’t know what do to

When the light goes out, only you can turn it back on. You can’t wait for someone else to do it for you, or you may be waiting a long freaking time. And the thing is –  The light? It will often go out. It will disguise itself as fear, and confusion, and overwhelm and lack, and scarcity, and doubt, and everything in between, and it will turn out your light. Your light of passion, of dominance, of getting shit done, changing lives and creating a life you love.  In other words –  The thoughts in your head?  They will challenge you. They will confuse you.  They will scare you.  They will frustrate you. They will excite you.  They will give you confidence. They will hold you back. The thing about mindset work, is that it’s ALWAYS gonna be there. You always have to focus on it. You always have to make a conscious decision to improve your mindset every single day. Because if you don’t, the light will go out. And you won’t know how the fuck to turn it back on again and make things better. And so you will wallow in self-pity.  You will cry yourself to sleep at night because shit isn’t going the way you want it to.  You will go back and forth around what you should do to make things better again.  Instead of getting right to the root of the problem - your mindset - and fixing it.  Learn how to turn the light back on. Learn how to take a bad situation and make it better. Learn how to take...
Don’t fit the criteria? Expect to be IGNORED.

Don’t fit the criteria? Expect to be IGNORED.

I get really frustrated with people sometimes. Okay, a lot of the time. Okay, almost daily.  Because most people just piss me the hell off.  I wish I wasn’t this way… okay, so maybe I don’t… but deep down I believe I shouldn’t be this way, but I am, and honestly, I’m glad I am because being this way has gotten me this far, and I think that’s worked out quite well, so 🙂 Anyway –  The reason most people piss me off is because they are not like me. And if you’re not like me, I really, TRULY, just don’t want to talk to you. I can’t fucking stand you. I think there’s something really wrong with you and if you get into my bubble somehow you will TAINT me, ruin me, turn me into YOU. And yes, that would be the worst thing ever.  And maybe I’m being harsh, but I don’t think so, because the truth is that I have a particular type of person I like to engage with, and I believe it’s okay, and even a GOOD IDEA to avoid people who are NOT this person.  The sad thing is that so many people have the qualities of the person I can’t stand. I’d say 9 out of every 10 people who read this are those people I can’t stand.  The people who say they want something, but then fuck around and don’t do what’s necessary to have it.  The people who say one thing and do another.  The people who get annoyed by people who share their successes, instead of be happy for...
You’re not the only one who thinks the way you do!

You’re not the only one who thinks the way you do!

You don’t need to stay in hiding anymore.  You can come out, and be with the other supposed freaks like us! Believe it or not, there are MANY people who think the way you do, who act the way you do, who believe the way you do –  Who are JUST. LIKE. YOU.  We love to get up and hustle every single day of the week. We’re married to the grind and we fucking ENJOY IT. In fact, the thought of NOT grinding it out each day makes us want to puke! We do the work, all of the work, and then some, every single day, because why? Because we can’t NOT do it. Try to take away our hustle and you pretty much are killing us dead.  We don’t understand what the fuck people who aren’t like us actually DO with their lives. How can you NOT want to share your message and get paid to be you?? We really just don’t GET most people and the way they think and behave. We sometimes feel like we’re the only ones who feel the way we feel, but we’re not. There are other freaks just like us out there!  Do you love what you do? I mean, really, TRULY love what you do? Then for fuck’s sake, why aren’t you doing MORE of it? Why aren’t you making the most of every single second in your day? Why are you allowing fear and resistance to take over? That’s what the weak people do. That’s what the wannabe’s do. That’s not what WE DO.  You see, it’s like there’s 2...
I know your secret

I know your secret

I know your secret.  I know what you’ve been keeping from everyone, likely even from yourself, for weeks now.  You’ve been slacking. Again. You just don’t feel like putting in the extra effort if you aren’t getting the results you want. And I can tell you why that is: Because you don’t feel excited. You just don’t feel like it. How could you when it feels like you’re doing a ton of work for nothing??? But if you think about it, that’s pretty ridiculous, because if you know deep down that if you just did what you didn’t “feel like” doing, if you put yourself out there and actually did the freaking work, regardless of your FEELINGS, you would end up getting those results, which would lead you to then being excited and wanting to do MORE. And let me just tell you –  I know what it’s like to feel as though you’re busting your ass all day, every day, doing all the things you’re told you “should” do, and STILL not feeling satisfied with the results you get from that effort. I’ve spent a TON of time doing things I knew I had to do, but was often pissed off at the lack of results for the hundreds of hours I was investing –  Once I got into learning about mindset work and how crucial it was to my success, I did some digging around in my head to try and figure out why, after doing so much work, I was still not making the money I wanted to be making. What I learned was that I was...
In the past 2 days, I’ve filled up 24 pages in my journal…

In the past 2 days, I’ve filled up 24 pages in my journal…

In the past 2 days, I’ve filled up 24 pages in my journal. I’ve said before that journaling is the one thing I do every single day, NO MATTER WHAT. If I’m sick, I journal. If I’m traveling, I journal. If I’m working, I journal. If I’m tired, I journal. If I don’t feel like doing anything, I journal. I ALWAYS FREAKING JOURNAL. Why? Because this is my mindset work. And it’s mindset work that just plain WORKS! Through my journaling, I’ve been able to create some amazing things in my life – - Travelling business class or better when I fly - My Cadillac Escalade that I’ve wanted for over 10 years and thought I could never afford - Consistent $20K months, $30K months, $50K months and now on my way to $100K months - Close relationships with super high-level influencers - A feature in Entrepreneur magazine - Soulmate clients that are really amazing FRIENDS; who I love spending time with (online and off), who do the work & get results - A high-end publicist that gets me featured on the top entrepreneur podcasts and more - The ability to invest tens of thousands of dollars into working with my dream mentors And really, I could go on for ages, but let me just say that doing this mindset work daily, CONSISTENTLY, and without hesitation, allowed me to create all of the above and more. I’m now on my way to a $2 million dollar year and I KNOW it’s going to happen. Because what I write becomes my reality. Always. That’s just how it is. 🙂 Of...