by Cassie Howard | Jan 8, 2017 | Blogging |
When was the last time you allowed yourself to be 100% HONEST? Honest about what you want Honest about what you don’t Honest about how you feel Honest about where you are Honest about what you need Can you say that you’re being completely honest in every area of your life, with yourself, and with others? I think we all have a bit of mystery to us. I think we all keep secrets, even from ourselves at times, but deep down, we want to be heard. We want to share our truths. You know what I mean? OF COURSE you’re not trying to be secretive. OF COURSE you’re not actually TRYING to hide anything. OF COURSE you’re fucking human and have real feelings and real emotions. Of course! And yet – You keep hiding. You don’t allow yourself to speak up or to say what’s REALLY on your mind. You’re afraid you might make someone unhappy. You’re worried that someone might take what you say out of context and freak out. And I GET that you have these feelings come up. I have times that I really want to say something, but I don’t, because I’m scared of what the outcome will be, but I know that if I don’t do it – If I don’t honor my feelings – I will regret it. And there will be that sense of resentment there, which is no one’s fault but my own. I don’t want to hurt anybody. I want everyone to like me because I like everybody (for the most part, ha!). I pride myself on being insanely loyal, but...