Setting big goals and not achieving them? This is why –

Setting big goals and not achieving them? This is why –

Admit it –  You’ve been questioning yourself lately. Questioning your decisions, questioning your actions, even questioning the way you FEEL about your decisions and actions!  You’ve been setting big goals and not achieving them.  Why?  Not because their unattainable, no. But because you haven’t trully allowed yourself to achieve them. Something inside of you is holding you back. And I’m willing to bet it’s that lack of belief in yourself. Isn’t it? You think that you’re not good enough That people won’t listen to you  That you don’t have anything interesting to say That this is too hard, and what if you fail, and OMG what would you do then? That feeling of not believing? It’s not gonna go away no matter what you choose to do with your life. Not until you decide to have other thoughts and feelings instead! You see, it’s as simple as this  –  YOU get to decide how your life goes. So why the fuck are you asking other people for approval? Why are you waiting for someone else to give you a pat on the back and say you’re doing great and to keep going?  Does that really matter? What anyone else thinks? Do you want to make your OWN decisions and live your own life, on YOUR terms? Do you? Then step up, do the work, and MAKE IT HAPPEN. Right now. Today.  There is no tomorrow. There are no second chances. This is your life NOW; no waiting!  When you think about it, about the life you REALLY want, are you really doing EVERYTHING you can to make that a...