WHY I EMAIL MY LIST EVERY DAY

WHY I EMAIL MY LIST EVERY DAY

There has been some talk in my community about how and when you should email your list and because this is something I do differently than a lot of others, I thought I should say something about it, since a lot of people have been asking –  “How often should I email my list?” “How much is too much?” “How many times per week should I sell to my list?” As you might know, I email every single day. Sometimes more than once a day, and some days up to 8x a day if it’s the last day of a launch! In other words: I email A LOT.  And I think this freaks people out. Does it freak you out? The thought of emailing your community every single day? If so, I want you to ask yourself WHY. Because the way I see it? The more you email, the more you show up, the more you continue to BE THERE –  The more people start to pay attention to what you have to say.  Anyway, I thought about it this morning –  WHY I really do email my list every day –  And I wrote a list of my reasons that I thought would be helpful to share with those of you that are struggling with the idea of going against the advice of the “gurus” and showing up for your community on a daily basis.  WHY I EMAIL MY LIST EVERY DAY  Reason #1: I have a lot to say and share.  This seems pretty obvious, but I think it’s important to bring up. If someone signs up for...
STOP WAITING, STOP PLAYING SMALL – YOU JUST NEED TO ASK FOR MORE!

STOP WAITING, STOP PLAYING SMALL – YOU JUST NEED TO ASK FOR MORE!

You know you can just ask for MORE, right? I mean, really – Whatever you want more of in your life, whether that’s money, success, friendships, time –  JUST ASK FOR MORE.  One of the most frustrating things for me is when people play small in their life. They only accept what society tells them is good enough and just the mere THOUGHT of asking for more freaks them out because they don’t want other people to think they’re greedy.  Fuck that! Asking for more does not make you greedy, it makes you smart. Because when you have more, you’re able to give more. You’re able to change lives and make a difference. You’re not just like every other person on earth who struggles to pay their own bills, with no money left to spare at the end of the month to help the less fortunate or do anything that makes you feel amazing. One thing that I do in my daily mindset work is ask for more.  I ask for more money I ask for more soulmate clients I ask for more support I ask for more time I ask for more answers I ask for more ideas I ask for more of everything! And do you know what happens when I ask for more?  I FUCKING GET MORE, that’s what! And every time I get more, I want to give more. Because I know that some people just don’t have the same opportunities that we do, opportunities that we’re WASTING because we’re not truly going all the way in and asking for more than what others deem...
The real reason you can’t seem to make more money

The real reason you can’t seem to make more money

Let me guess –  You’re behind on your money goals for the month again, right?  Why does this keep happening? Why do you keep setting goals but never hitting them?  I’ll tell you why –  Because you don’t actually WANT to hit them. Yep. That’s it. That’s what’s holding you back. I’m willing to bet my bank account balance on it. 😉 You, are full of excuses. You’re full of reasons why it didn’t happen. Except all of those excuses and all of those reasons are complete and utter bullshit.  Oh, you didn’t FEEL like it? You were sick? You were tired? You were overwhelmed? You had 838732 other commitments? You didn’t gave the time? Give me a break. You just didn’t want it bad enough. You can THINK you wanted it as much as you want, but you know damn well that if that was REALLY true, you would have done it. Right? So let’s figure out why you keep holding yourself back. WHAT IS IT YOU REALLY, TRULY WANT? Get out your journal and write down every single thing that you want in life. The physical items, the relationships the mindset, the body, the health, the experiences, the lifestyle –  Write it ALL down. Remember that NOTHING is off limits. You can list as many things as you want. I think I have about 50 things on my list! One thing to keep in mind: Write down these things as if they’ve already happened. For example: I own and live in my dream home on the beach I always travel first class and love every minute of my...
Ruthlessly eliminate the toxins from your life

Ruthlessly eliminate the toxins from your life

Think about a cloudy, overcast, cold & wet day.  Think about how GREY it is.  Think about how DEPRESSING it is. That’s what your life will be like if you allow the toxins in your life to stay there –  The toxic people The toxic thoughts The toxic experiences The toxic activities It must be eliminated from your life. All of it!  These toxins are guaranteed to slow you down, hold you back, and thwart any progress you’ve made thus far. They will continue to be tapping you on the shoulder, trying to get you to throw in the towel and just give up already. I guarantee there are some toxins in your life right now. And you know this, too.  There are some toxic people you haven’t pushed away because you’d feel guilty if you did. People who don’t support you fully, who question everything you say or do, who try to get you to follow their rules instead of your own. This is the definition of a toxic person and they need to go, which yes, can be really hard for you to do, especially if this person is a family member! I know women who have divorced their husbands because that person was a toxic influence. I know others who don’t speak to their parents anymore because they weren’t supportive.  And I’m grateful that I do have a supportive husband and supportive family, but I know without a doubt in my mind that if they WEREN’T supportive, and they became toxins in my life, they’d be gone in an instant. Because I value myself too much...
What THEY won’t tell you about having it all –

What THEY won’t tell you about having it all –

You can sit around and complain that things aren’t going your way –  Or you can do something about it.  Instead of wallowing around in your own self-pity, you need to DO THE WORK. All of the work Not some of the work Not just the work you “feel like” doing But ALL OF IT  All of the work that matters! I mean, come on! This is your LIFE we’re talking about here! Do you want your life to be better? Do you want to be making more money? Do you want to help more people?  Do you want to have more freedom? Then I’m sorry to tell you, but that requires sweat equity. That requires constat hustle. That requires dedication to do whatever it takes. The fluffy “you don’t need to hustle 24/7 to be successful” articles and Facebook posts you read are full of it. I mean, sure, you can of course be successful without always hustling. OF COURSE YOU CAN. But HOW successful is the question. How successful do you want to be? I’m sure you could build a 6-figure business working just a few hours a week. People do that all the time. But if you want MORE? If 6-figures is the bottom of the barrel for you –  If you want more Much more Then you need to grind. I’m sorry, but that’s just the truth. Actually, I’m not sorry. I’m annoyed. Annoyed with people telling you that hustle leads to burn out. Hustle only leads to burn out if you’re wasting time on shit that doesn’t matter and that doesn’t make you happy. ...