by Cassie Howard | Jul 21, 2018 | Goals |
So what if that client that said yes changed her mind? So what if someone said you were wasting your time doing what you felt called to do? So what if you aren’t sure exactly how to make something happen? So what if you are scared? So what if things don’t happen the way you want them to happen? So what if someone doesn’t like you? So what so what so what?? What REALLY matters is: Are you doing what feels right to YOU? If the answer is yes, then fuck all the other bullshit and keep on doing it! Things rarely work out exactly how you want or expect them to, and by holding on to the notion that they MUST is just going to frustrate you and kill you slowly, day by day. You can’t micro-manage everything - and why would you want to? Life is way more fun when it’s spontanious and off-the-cuff! Listen, here’s the truth: There will be people who don’t like you. There will be people who disagree with you. There will be people who talk shit about you behind your back (chicken shit’s would never do it to your face, of course). As a recovering people-pleaser, I’ve learned all too well just how impossible it is to be liked by everyone. And as soon as I realized that, I stopped trying. I THREW MY FUCKS OUT THE WINDOW AND NEVER LOOKED BACK! I made the decison to show up fully, as me, and fuck what anyone things. I chose to speak my mind, and say what I REALLY think - not just...
