by Cassie Howard | Jul 21, 2018 | Goals |
So what if that client that said yes changed her mind? So what if someone said you were wasting your time doing what you felt called to do? So what if you aren’t sure exactly how to make something happen? So what if you are scared? So what if things don’t happen the way you want them to happen? So what if someone doesn’t like you? So what so what so what?? What REALLY matters is: Are you doing what feels right to YOU? If the answer is yes, then fuck all the other bullshit and keep on doing it! Things rarely work out exactly how you want or expect them to, and by holding on to the notion that they MUST is just going to frustrate you and kill you slowly, day by day. You can’t micro-manage everything - and why would you want to? Life is way more fun when it’s spontanious and off-the-cuff! Listen, here’s the truth: There will be people who don’t like you. There will be people who disagree with you. There will be people who talk shit about you behind your back (chicken shit’s would never do it to your face, of course). As a recovering people-pleaser, I’ve learned all too well just how impossible it is to be liked by everyone. And as soon as I realized that, I stopped trying. I THREW MY FUCKS OUT THE WINDOW AND NEVER LOOKED BACK! I made the decison to show up fully, as me, and fuck what anyone things. I chose to speak my mind, and say what I REALLY think - not just...
by Cassie Howard | Jul 19, 2018 | Making Money |
Here’s the thing: Not everyone is gonna make it. Not everyone is going to get the results, have the success they want, or live the life they crave. It’s sad, but it’s the damn truth. Most people that you meet will live their days doing shit they don’t wanna do, because they were told and/or believe that they have to. They won’t ever get to experience what it’s like to live life on their terms. And this frustrates me beyond belief because all I want to do is help people to have it all. I want them to see just how EASY it can be to be, do and have the things that they desire. But… They cant. And they won’t. Because they’re not willing to go all in. They’re not willing to do the work (yeah, there is work involved, you DO need to roll up your sleeves and get shit done!), or at least not all the time anyway! They’d rather go over here and do this, or go over there and do that, that’s way more fun. Well yeah, so then don’t expect to have it all. The thing about success (money success, life success, body success, relationship success, business success… whatever), is that it requires you to work your motherfucking ass off. I’m sorry, hate to break it to ya - but you’ve gotta WERK, GIRL. The work can be easy, it can be exciting & fun, and it doesn’t even need to FEEL like work, but the work MUST. GET. DONE. There’s no other way around it. I am where I am today because...
by Cassie Howard | Jul 18, 2018 | Work At Home Mom |
There’s a thing you do.. A thing you CONTINUALLY do.. That’s driving you deeper and deeper still into that big black hole of hell that makes you feel opressed, depressed, and tired as fuck. You can claw your way around in that hole all you want, but.. sorry to break it to ya – You ain’t coming out. You’re stuck. Down there. Until – You get over your motherfucking bullshit that is keeping you so damn stuck. Right now you’re overwhelmed as all else. Looking at this chick and that chick and OMG HOW DO THEY DO THAT? You look at women like me, and others LIKE me, and wonder… how is it so easy for them? I don’t get it. What am I doing wrong? It’s like she has some kind of magic touch - everything she does seems to succeed. I want that! You’ve done all the things. Created programs that were a hell yes for you but that no one bought (talk about a smack in the face that was) Been talking to a potential client who were all YES, I’M IN! but then disappeared and never signed up to work with you (ouch) Gave away tons and tons of free content to HOPEFULLY be seen as THE expert that people should want to hire, but who didn’t (that’s embarassing) You’ve given up time, blood, sweat, tears… a whole ton of tears… and you’re frustrated as hell right now. If we’re being honest here, you’ve been settling. Settling for what’s easy, what you don’t have to push to achieve. When really, you LOVE the push. You...
by Cassie Howard | Jul 17, 2018 | Making Money |
If you want to be good at anything, you need to practice. It doesn’t happen overnight - you don’t get to be the best at what you do if you don’t first TRY, and then PERFECT what you do. Practice. On repeat. Day after freakin’ day, forever and ever. This applies to EVERYTHING. To money. To a super hot bod. To a fantastic relationship. To incredible health. To perfect, soulmate clients. To the most amazing friends. To freedom. To business. To your ideal lifestyle. Practice = improvements = success. Obviously “success” is gonna look different to everyone, so first off, clearly define what it means to YOU, and then, start practicing and getting really good at the stuff you want to be good AT. I spend every day doing a lot of the same stuff, on repeat, getting better and better each day that I do it. Learning more every time I step up, take the action, do the work, lean into it. It’s how I’ve become so good at selling. It’s how I’ve called in the best friendships I’ve had in years. It’s how I’ve written books and blogs and programs and emails (and more still!). It’s how I’ve manifested over a million dollars online in less than 3 years. It’s how I do errrrythang. Practice. I spend time DAILY doing the work that matters. Wanna know what I do every day? The stuff that really moves the needle and makes a HUGE impact in getting the SUCCESS I choose in life? Each day looks a little something like this: 4am-6am: Wake-up (the time varies, but is usually...
