by Cassie Howard | Aug 30, 2018 | Work At Home Mom |
Do you ever wonder what life would be like if you just decided to drop the bullshit excuses you keep spewing and ACTUALLY went all the way in on you dreams? You’re stuck in this place of feeling defeated, angry, frustrated, like your heart is about to explode out of your chest from the STRESS of it all and you just can’t BREATHE anymore.. You’re writing and selling and doing all the STUFF “they” tell you to do, but it’s not WORKING! Whatever you’re selling ISN’T selling and you’re questioning WHY, again. Didn’t this JUST happen? How does it KEEP happening? Every time you go online you hear people talk about 6-figure launches and million dollar businesses that they seemingly created overnight and you’re over here like… why won’t my $200 offer sell?! Listen UP, this is what you need to know: You’re doing it again. You know, that thing you ALWAYS do. When you KNOW exactly what you MUST do, but instead you fall back into THIS – Into scarcity Into resistance Into fear And yep, of course, into stalking people online and looking at THEIR successes and comparing them to your own (or lack thereof!). You’re doing it AGAIN – Falling into the trap of believing that it has to be HARD, that you need to really WORK for it, that it’s not supposed to be EASY or FUN and that this is just how it IS! But no. You’re wrong. And.. You’re doing it again – Not allowing yourself to have what you want (you know - the FREEDOM you promised yourself? which is the whole...
by Cassie Howard | Aug 29, 2018 | Blogging |
Just so you know – You’re doing a great job. Be proud of how far you’ve come, because you’ve come a long way. Everything is working out in your favor. Trust that, because it’s the truth. Believe in yourself - it’s your greatest superpower. You are worthy of everything you desire - don’t give up on it, or you. It’s all going to be okay - MORE than okay, even - it’s going to be AMAZING. One day you will look back on this period of your life and you will say to yourself “I’m so grateful for that time” because it will have lead you to where you’ve always wanted to be. Stand in your power and always say what’s on your heart, even if other people don’t agree, or like it. Stay true to yourself. Be your own cheerleader. Continue to fight for what you believe in. Everything is always perfect, so long as you choose to see it that way. Enjoy the process of getting “there”, it’s more important than the final destination. You are enough. You are MORE than enough. Everything you feel that you can’t have, is possible for you. It’ ALL possible for you. All that you desire is already yours - just tap in and receive it! What you feel inside of you is real - don’t push it away. Feel your feelings, even the “bad” ones, for they are there to tell you something that you need to know. Your thoughts, beliefs, and opinions are all valid. Don’t ever hide them. Ruthlessly eliminate people from your life that don’t support you....
by Deana | Aug 28, 2018 | Goals |
Sometimes I look back at how my life was just a few years ago.. Pinching pennies, trying to save on every single thing I bought, celebrating a $1.95 purchase instead of paying the full $2. Truly believing that I needed to work hard, work often, work tirelessly, to make 6-figures (and definitely 7-figs and up). Reading personal-finance and frugal living blogs (including writing for my own!), soaking up how to save more money, which often meant cutting out things from my life that truly made me happy, just to save a few bucks a month. Hating the rich and seeing them as slimy, greedy, selfish motherfuckers that shouldn’t be trusted (I’ve since learned the complete opposite is true, and I love rich people - and am friends with a few of ’em and know first-hand how the stigma around wealth is total BS). Spending so much time doing shit I hated, just because I thought thay I HAD to, including cleaning my own house (say WHAT?!), cooking all my food (WHAT!! unheard of!), doing work I was no longer passionate about, letting people verbally abuse me and treat me like crap, because “they pay my bills”. I look back and I feel so sorry for that girl. I feel sad for her. For all that she believed was true about herself and the world, but that wasn’t. I feel outraged for her that she allowed others to walk all over her, abuse her emotionally and verbally, and suck all of her happiness out of her soul. I just want to go back and hug her and tell her that...
by Cassie Howard | Aug 26, 2018 | Planning |
I want you to know that no matter what you’re struggling with right now, it will get better. It always does. But it starts with you first acknowledging the problem and then taking action on it. You can’t stick your head in the sand and hope it goes away. That doesn’t work. Trust me, I’ve tried. It will be painful. It will be scary. It will be uncomfortable. But also? It will be worth it. Because soon, it will be over. Soon it will just be a part of your story that you can share your lessons from. Not until you take the first step of acknowledgement, though. You can’t keep pushing it off. You can’t wait any longer to fix this problem that is hanging over your head. Suffocating you. Negatively affecting every second of every day. I’ve done this in the past (just last year, actually, where I pushed big problems off for months, even years). I’ve done things I knew would make the problem worse just because I was being stubborn. I’ve avoided dealing with my emotions, and the underlying reason the problem happened in the first place. I was scared. Scared to admit what I’ve done. Scared to acknowledge the severity of the problem. Scared to ask for help and let others know how much I messed up. So I would delay “getting to it”. I kept telling myself I would finally sit down and figure it out. I’d solve the problem once and for all and never let it happen again. Just not right this second. I’d DELAY DELAY DELAY. And eventually the universe...
by Cassie Howard | Aug 21, 2018 | Making Money |
The funny thing about people is that they say they want something, but they don’t PROVE it with their actions, and so of course they don’t get it, and complain that “this manifesting stuff doesn’t work”. LOL Come on now. You didn’t really think that writing down a few affirmations in your journal each day was enough, did you? You don’t really believe that in order to manifest, you just ask for something and then sit around and wait until you’re INSPIRED to do something to make it happen? Wrong and wrong and wrong and wrong x infinity. Here’s what’s up: To manifest ANYTHING, there IS a process. You need to do a series of things in order to bring what you want to life. It won’t just magically appear in your life because you asked for it or visualized about it one time. It comes because you know it’s already THERE. ACTION is a big part of that process. What you want? It comes when you decide and then take action. Messy action that comes from being in your Feel Good Flow State. Meaning: You’ve gotta do stuff. And the STUFF is always “what feels good right now”. So today your stuff might be: - write a post on FB about a comment someone made, that I wanna rant about - send an email to ______ about my 6-month program I think they’d be perfect for - get my nails done because I want to feel like a boss lady and sexy nails makes me feel that way - message my coach about my new sales page and...
