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by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
Have you allowed yourself to REALLY ask for what you want?I mean, really, truly, gone within and asked yourself for complete clarity on exactly what you want.Whether it’s money stuff, body stuff, relationship stuff, lifestyle stuff, or something else? Exactly what is it? Get clear. Crystal fucking clear. The universe loves specificity. Think colours, numbers, sizes, locations, people, experiences… all of it. I think back to when I manifested my first big thing - my Cadillac Escalade. Dream car for over a decade. Manifested back in 2015 (in just a few months). How? I got specific. No older than 2013. Black for sure. Interior and exterior. A certain number of kilometres or less (I forget the exact number). Pristine condition. Under $100K. I would point them out when I saw them on the road and feel all the feel-good feelings I know I would feel if I was driving one. If I saw one in a parking lot, I would make sure no one was inside, and then I would raun my hand along the side of it and stare at it with awe (LOL!). I looked up deals online. I pictured myself driving it. I sometimes pretended the mom van I was driving, was actually an Escalade, ha! And at my core, I knew it was mine. I knew it was DONE. I didn’t know when I would get it or how I would get it, but I just knew it was done. I didn’t have to worry about it. And then it was mine. Just like that. Of course, the BELIEF that it was gonna happen was the main reason it happened, but the SPECIFICITY was a key componant...
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by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
This is going to be a brutally honest message to you today (when isn’t it??! ha!)..#1. You’re boring. You live a mediocre life (at best), and never share anything interesting. Therefore, no one finds you interesting, and no one is inspired by you and your life. BTW: No one likes to hang with or learn/buy from boring people.#2. You quit before you succeed. You give up way too easily; usually right around the time it gets really hard. You’re a quitter. And quitters never win (I mean.. duh).#3. You don’t invest in yourself. You try to do everything on your own to save money (which really just means to hoard your money because you’re afraid of being broke if you spend some of it… talk about scarcity mindset like WHOA), when what you need to do to get ahead is invest in a mentor that can shorten your learning curve and help you get results FASTER.#4. You are flaky as fuck. You’re here for a few days, then you disappear, then you’re back and “going all in!”, and then you’re gone. You’re inconsistent and that’s lame.#5. You have no story, no message, NOTHING to connect you with your audience. If people don’t know who you are, where you came from, and what you stand for (and against), they can’t form a connection with you. And if there’s no connection, they’re gone.#6. You never actually ask for the sale. I’m not sure how you expect money to come in if you’re not asking for it. Also: It’s not enough to ask once. You keep asking, repeatedly. You never stop asking,...
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by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
There’s something about Monday mornings. The feeling of a new week. New possibilities. New goals to crush. New decisions to be made. New routines to implement. New things to try. There’s not a single shred of discontent when Monday rolls around. It’s always been my favorite day of the week, even back when I had a regular 9-5 type job and had to get up early to go to work.(Sidenote: It’s so funny to me now when I think back to what “get up early” meant to me back then (waking up before 9 was early), wheras these days early is any time before 5am. LOLEarly morning risers, raise your hand! I woke up this morning and didn’t dread the week ahead. I opened up my calendar and looked at all the things that I had in there (podcast submission! solo getaway downtown! book hawaii hotel + flights! finalize matcha packaging! client calls! start $10K in 10 days challenge!), plus my usual daily mischief! I wasn’t overwhelmed, even though there’s a lot on there. I was EXCITED, and looking FORWARD to all the things I get to do this week.Have you ever looked over your to-do’s for the week/day, and felt EXCITED to get it all done? Or are you regularly looking at your list with a feeling of suffocation and the need to just run away from it all?The thing I’ve discovered is that the less excited you feel when looking at your list of tasks (Including the ones in your head and not down on paper!), the less likely those are the things you should actually be spending your time on. It’s...
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by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
One of my favorite quotes (of my own!) of all time is this: “Making money is really fucking easy!”I still believe that. Deep down in my core, I know, without a doubt, that making money is incredibly easy. Especially online. And anyone who complains about it being hard makes me wanna pull my hair because they clearly just don’t GET IT. What sells is not a perfectly planned program.It’s not a beautiful sales page that lists off all the pain points, all the benefits, all the shiny things you’re gonna get when you sign up. It’s not you sending sales email after sales email, spamming the shit out of your people. What DOES and what ALWAYS sells is being all of you, all of the time, and sharing that person with the world in a big way. Your authenticity is what sells. Being truthful, open, and honest, is what sells - and the sad thing is - this radical authenticity is SO different from what most people are doing. It’s so different that when YOU do it, and you do it consistently, people are absolutely magnetized to you. They can’t look away. What sets you apart from the thousands of other people already doing what you do, is YOU. What makes you unique and a match for your soulmate peeps is your experiences, your thoughts, your beliefs. Why people are attracted to you, want to be around you, want to learn from you, is because of who YOU are, and the magic that only you can bring to their lives. Your story is what changes lives. What you’ve overcome is what will help others overcome what THEY are now going through and...
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by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
It always amazes me when people complain about not getting the results they want, when it’s clear they haven’t been doing the work to get those results. Yes there’s a bit of magic involved and manifestation can seem as though all you have to do is believe & decide and then sit around and wait for your desire to show up, but it doesn’t end there. You’ve still gotta WORK. I show up every single day, whether I feel like it or not, and I put in the work to get the results I want to have. This is a discipline. This is a commitment. I write dozens of Facebook posts every week. I share videos and images on Instagram Stories every single day. I send out a minimum of 1 email to my list daily (though, it’s usually more often than that!).I engage with my audience every single day, while at the same time, doing things to grow that community in some way and attract new people into my space. I write and write and write some more - my thoughts, my experiences, my beliefs.. whatever it coming through me, I let it out (not always publicly, sometimes in my journal). I create new opt-ins, new free trainings, new bonuses that I can give away to my community evey week. I create content for my paid programs almost daily.I create sales pages, tweak sales pages, promote sales pages all the live long day, on repeat. I DO the work. I get shit done. Yes, it’s a lot for some people, but for me, it’s second-nature. It’s engrained in who I am as a person. It’s my LIFE, and so it doesn’t...
