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by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
It’s crazy to me how quickly we give up on ourselves. How quickly we decide “it’s not working, I knew it wouldn’t” – Our shoulders slump, we scream words of frustration (MOTHERFUCKINGSHITBALLSSCUNTBIIIIIIICTHIHATEYOU!!!!.… no? just me?) and we give up completely…At this point, our soul feels crushed. Crumpled up like a ball on the floor, we discard our desire of that thing we didn’t give enough TIME to manifest for us. But had you just stuck with it.. Just kept pushing..Just kept believing..Just kept GOING a little bit longer..I’m willing to bet that by this point today, you’d be enjoying the thing you were so desperately trying to create for yourself back then.Let’s talk sales, since that’s a pretty big subject in this entrepreneurial space, practically all the time! If you know me, you know that I am absolutely OBSESSED with sales . I LOVE to sell. I read books on sales almost daily.I join courses and programs on sales regularly. I watch videos and listen to audio trainings around sales. I hire mentors and we focus primarily on.. you guessed it - sales. I journal around sales every single day.Selling is in my blood. It’s something I enjoy more than almost anything else I do. But it wasn’t always this way.. I used to dread selling. I was afraid of it. I thought it was wrong.Truth was – I was brought up told that selling was taking. If someone gave me $10, they no longer had $10. And even though I had the entrepreneurial spirit inside of me for as far back as I can remember in my childhood, I would often stop myself from selling because I thought that by...
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by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
Tough love time?Yeah, me thinks so.You’ve been slacking. Procrastinating. Saying “I’m gonna I’m gonna I’m gonna!” but then not… doin’ the damn thing.Not writing the post. Not sending the email. Not pitching the offer. Not engaging. Not showing the fuck UP, in the way you know you’re meant to. I know.. you’re SO busy. You just have SO much going on right now. I know you have every excuse in the world to not put forth the effort. I know you’re scared. Scared of failure, of saying the wrong thing, of having to do things you don’t really wanna do.I also know that you’ve been pushing so hard so hard so hard, for SO DAMN LONG, and you’re frustrated. That you’re not quite where you wanna be. That you’re not further along than that chick who started her biz after you. That you’re not consistently making the money you used to be making at one point in your business. I know you’re tired. EXHAUSED even. Ready for your turn. Ready for the whole “this gets to be easy” shit that everyone and their dog seems to be preachin’ lately. Ready for the struggle to pack its’ bags and leave you forever. I’m gonna let you on a lil’ secret, okay?The second you surrender to the outcome is the second the outcome slides a bit closer, and closer, and closer still - and soon enoough, is REAL and yours and RIGHT NOW and OMG I DID IT. Instantly. You INSTANTLY shift things that single second you decide to surrender. Wanna know what my manifestation process looks like, in depth? Yes?Okay. 🙂CLARITY. >> Get clear on what is desired. VERY FUCKING CLEAR. Specifics are...
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by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
You’ve always known you were gonna be successful, have what you want, live the life.It’s been clear since you were a lil’ youngin’ that you were gonna do something big in the world, right?How?Who knows, but it has always been clear that win at life is exactly what you’d do.You could, and still can, see it vividly –The money, the freedom, the support, the creativity, the luxury, the convenience –The travel to beautiful places, and then coming back to your favorite place - home.It’s always been CERTAIN in your mind that you were born to win.So why, then, are you being so fucking lazy. It’s appaling? It’s a DISGRACE. It’s a slap in the damn FACE (yours!).You’re waitingContemplating“Thinking about it”You’re perfectingGetting ready until things are just soDelayingYou’re second-guessingYou’re over-thinkingYou’re puttin’ on the BREAKSAnd then you have the audacity to complain that you’re not quite THERE yet? Give me a break!Here’s something you should know:YOU’VE GOTTA WEEEEERK, GIRL!It can be easy, it can be fun, but the time? You’ve gotta put it in. Plain and simple. There’s no gettin’ around it.Another thing you should know:THERE IS NO “RIGHT” TIME.It’s never the “right” time to start. Never the right time to launch.Never the right time to raise your prices.Never the right time to write that book.Never the right time to sell.Never the right time to post on Facebook.Or send an email.Or do a livestream.There is never a right time to do anything - except now. The time is always now. Your life is happening right now… what the fuck are you waiting for?One more thing you should know:YOU’RE DYING.You’re one more day...
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by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
If you could dig into the brain of the person you are inspired by the most and could pull out all of their essence and transfer it into you – All of their knowledge – All of their enthusiam – All of their confidence –All of their zest for life – All of their beliefs – If it could be yours, right now, today – How would you feel?Good news! You can do this. You can do this NOW.You can have the knowledge (hire a mentor, join a program, purchase a course, read a book, go to an event). You can have the enthusism (always - and only - do things that you’re excited about).You can have the confidence (learn, learn, learn some more - the more you learn, the more you know, the more you know, the more confidence you exude… also, do more of the things you feel confident with NOW, even if they have nothing to do with the area you’re trying to be more confident in).You can have the same zest for life (have an exciting vision for your life and spend time working toward that every day).You can have the same beliefs (you get to CHOOSE what you believe, remember?).No more BS excuses about how you can’t not now, not yet, things just aren’t PERFECT yet, you need to get permission first, you need to finish ____ first, blah blah blah - it’s all bullshit. If you want something – If you feel deep down in your soul that it’s meant for you, then you’ve gotta put in the EFFORT to have it. Choose. Decide. Leap. Go ALL in. Not tomorrow, not next week,...
by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
Have you ever stopped to think that maybe, just maybe, you’d be further along on your journey to freedom, abundance and joy, if you’d just, well - decided to?Wanting is one thing. Experiencing is another. And sadly, the truth is, that most people don’t get to experience the things they want in their lives. Not because they didn’t have the ability to, or because they were unworthy of experiencing it, or because they didn’t have enough time or money to manifest it into their reality, but because, plain and simple – They didn’t decide. And not just a simple act of deciding either. No. It takes more than that. Deciding is the first step – But there is a missing piece. A piece that is so commonly forgotten about or ignored. And that piece?Is certainty. Certainty in your ability to create the life that you so desire.Certainty that you will, without a doubt, have whatever it is that you want.Certainty that you are capable. That you are worthy. That you are SAFE. I know that you’ve been wanting this for so long now. You look at others (many of whom started their journey at the same time or even AFTER you did) and how their lives have seemed to flourish while yours simply stayed the same. You wonder “why her, not me? what’s wrong with me? what am I doing wrong?” – And you doubt yourself.You doubt your capabilites. You doubt your worth. You aren’t certain. Sure, you may have DECIDED to be wealthy, to be free, to be happy. But you, like many others, weren’t all that confident that it would happen, now were you? You doubted yourself - just a...
