I’m not gonna sit here and try to pretend to know what the fuck I’m doing.
It’s just a guessing game. I am doing what feeds my soul. I am following the nudges. I am listening in to what I feel CALLED to do. And then I go and do THAT.
I don’t have all the answers. But I do know this:
You KNOW what you need to do; always. Regardless of the situation, you know what you need to do.
The sad thing is that most people seek out the opinions of others to feed their soul. “What should I do?”, “What do you think”? Who the fuck CARES what I think? What do YOU think? What do YOU actually WANT to do?
There are no rules. There isn’t a magic handbook to life that will give you a step-by-step plan to achieving X, Y and Z.
Go inside. Deep inside your thoughts. Deep inside your head. Deep inside your fucking SOUL and ask: What do I need to say? What do I need to do? How do I need to tackle this? What is my next move?
Stop seeking validation from others!
Stop thinking that you can’t figure out what YOU need.
Stop saying you don’t know.
YOU KNOW. You’ve always known. You just don’t trust yourself enough to listen.
Go inside.
Go inside.
Go inside.
Deep within your soul are the answers to questions you’re asking yourself now and even the questions you’ve long forgotten. The answers are there. Shut up and listen!
No one can save you except yourself. Are you a leader or a follower? Do you let people tell you what to do? Do you call the shots in your own life?
Are you TRYING
TRYING
TRYING
To make sense of it all –
But can’t?
Are you watching others? Looking at what they’re doing, what they’re saying, even what THEY are thinking? How they’re showing up? Trying to be just like THEM because –
Look at their success!
If they are doing ____, you should probably do it too and then you’ll also be successful! Uh, no. Not how this works.
Want to be successful?
FIRST –
Figure out what success looks like to you. What do you REALLY need to be, do and have, in order to be successful in your mind? What does you life need to look like? How do you need to FEEL? What IS success to you? Ask yourself. Figure that shit out.
Don’t look at how OTHERS are successful. That doesn’t matter. Their idea of success likely looks very different from yours, and that’s normal!
Find YOUR happy. THAT is what you aim for.
SECOND –
Set the success intentions.
So you want to be making $30K a month? That’s when you’ll truly feel successful? WHY? Why $30K? Why is that the magic number, first of all? SET THE INTENTION that it’s a done deal.
You want to be in a super hot, romantic relationship? WHY? What does that super hot and romantic actual entail? SET THE INTENTION that it’s a done deal.
You want to be travelling the world, living the VIP high-vibe life? WHY? What does that look like exactly? SET THE INTENTION that it’s a done deal.
Get super fucking specific about what it is that you want and why, and then, SET THE INTENTION.
Get out your journal. Set the intention. Set the intention. Set the intention. It is DONE.
THIRD –
Get out of your own way!
You know who’s able to sabotage your success? No one. Except YOU. So if you don’t currently have the success you want, MOVE OUT OF THE WAY!
Stop blocking your own success. Allow yourself to follow those intuitive nudges you’ve so far been ignoring.
Trust your gut, follow the flow, do what you feel CALLED to do. Even if it feels uncomfortable. Even if it feels scary. Even if you feel like you don’t know what the hell you’re doing. Even if you don’t FEEL LIKE IT. If you KNOW it needs to be done because it’s your CALLING and you can’t think of anything else that will set your fucking soul on FIRE as much as it –
Do THAT. Stop getting onto your path of success, lying down and refusing to move.
Get out of the fucking way!
What you want and what you currently have is in direct correlation to the intentions you set and the action you take every day.
Don’t have what you want? Set more intentions. Take more action.
Journal more
Write more
Sell more
Create more
Give more
Post more
Show up more
Speak more
Collaborate more
Market more
DO MORE!
YOU are in control of your life. You are the one calling the shots. You are the only person that gets to dictate what happens next.
Are you willing to leave things the way they are? Are you happy with the NOW?
And if not –
What are you gonna do about it?
Look inside.
Look inside.
Look inside.
GO WITHIN, where ALL of the answers are waiting.
I’ve had this conversation with many people, clients included:
I am not the coach for you if you expect me to give you all if the answers. All of the step-by-steps. The plan. The checklist.
I am here to support you, to guide you, to give you the SPACE to reveal your inner desires and help you bring them to life. I’m here to be your cheerleader, but also your ass-kicker if you need it. I’m good at calling people out on their bullshit that gets in the way of their success. 🙂
Don’t expect others to fix what’s broken inside of you.
Go within. Figure it out. Ask for SUPPORT if you need it, but you need to realize that it all comes down to YOU.
The unfortunate truth is that most people don’t have what it takes.
Most people are doomed to be negative and unhappy for the rest of their lives.
Most people don’t have a fucking clue that they can turn things around for themselves in an INSTANT and even if you try to tell them, they’ll think you’re lying. It’s like trying to convince someone to quit smoking cigarettes. You can’t. They have to make the decision that they’re done with it, they’re sick of the addiction, they don’t want it anymore, and they’re ready to make the change. For THEM, no one else.
An internal decision.
A personal decision.
And then a commitment to do what it fucking TAKES to make the changes necessary and get the results you REALLY want.
It’s up to you. Always.
What do you really want? And what are you gonna do to make it happen?
Don’t forget –
You really can be, do and have EVERYTHING you want. Take action now!