I want you to know something that you may not understand about yourself:
Right now –
You’re sabbotaging.
You’re telling yourself that you can’t have what you want, or not yet, maybe later.
You’re allowing others to dictate the actions you make and don’t make.
And the worst part?
You’re denying the fact that you are WORTHY.
You are worthy of EVERYTHING you desire, and not only are you worthy of it, but it was meant for you. If you can see it in your head, you can see it in front of you. You really can be, do and have EVERYTHING you want.
That’s not just some cute little saying I made up one day. It’s the truth. I know because I’ve done it, and I continue to do it as I up-level my life.
Do you ever think about the things you want and then dismiss some of them because they’re too much?
Do you say you want something, but then never fully go after it, because it seems impossible to make your reality?
Don’t you WISH you could stop doing that shit and just start going after what you want without feeling scared?
I don’t think I have to tell you this, but I will anyway: You can have it ALL. It doesn’t matter how crazy it may seem, or how “unlikely” others tell you it is. It doesn’t matter if no one has ever done it before. It doesn’t matter if it appears to be something that will take too much time or cost too much money, thus making it unrealistic.
That doesn’t matter.
Let me tell you what DOES matter, based on my own experience and what happens regularly with my private clients and those in my programs:
DECIDING.
You just need to decide.
What is it that you really, truly want?
Why do you want it?
How will you feel when you have it?
Make the decisions and then get yourself into situations where you will feel the way you would feel if you had already received what it is you want.
For example:
Let’s say you want a new car. Write this down. The make and model of the car. The color. How many miles are on it? What does the interior look like? What kind of features does it have?
Okay now, picture yourself driving it. How do you look? Are you smiling? Laughing?
Pretend you are sitting in the driver’s seat, staring at your hands on the steering wheel. Picture it. Feel the car rev up as you hit the gas. Feel the braking as you slow it down. Feel the wind in your hair while you drive down the street with the windows down. Hear the music you would be playing as you drive.
Visualize it. You must first see it in your mind before you can see it in “real life”.
Whatever it is you want, no matter how big or “crazy”, just decide that it’s already yours. Like this:
I own a brand new, 2018 Cadillac Escalade.
Our home is beautifully designed by a top interior designer.
I own a wardrobe of clothing, picked out mostly by my personal stylist, that make me look & feel amazing.
I am completely in love with my body.
I love my hair stylist. They always do exactly what I want and my hair looks awesome!
The kids are doing SO well in their new school!
My dad works for me full time and I love it!
Richard works with me from home and we have so much fun together.
I have my own private driver who takes me anywhere I need to go.
I own a private jet and take regular trips in it each month.
I have an amazing gardener/landscaper who takes incredible care of our property.
I have lots of entrepreneur friends in the area who I spend time with in person every week.
I host monthly, sold-out, events in Toronto.
I only do what I enjoy and what only I can do in my business: writing & speaking; my team manages the rest.
I am always super high-vibe and positive.
I get my nails done monthly.
I get my hair done multiple times every week.
I get weekly massages.
Our home is always clean & organized.
We own multiple vacation homes around the world, which double as income properties.
I adore my clients and LOVE spending time with them. I always look forward to their calls!
I own an animal sanctuary that regularly rescues farm animals.
I have a CFO that works for me and pays all of my bills so I don’t have to.
I am well taken care of.
Once you’ve decided what you want (and I recommend doing this at least a few times per month because a) it gets you super pumped up and excited, and b) it reminds you what you’re working towards), you then need to get it into your head that it is a DONE. FUCKING. DEAL.
Claim it. Own it. It is DONE.
You are WORTHY of all of it. You don’t need to explain why you want what you want. You don’t need to justify your desires. What you need to do is know that you are worthy, and that what you seek is seeking you. 🙂
Repeat after me:
I am worthy of all that I desire.
I am worthy of all that I desire.
I am worthy of all that I desire.
I AM WORTHY OF ALL THAT I DESIRE!