Sometimes I get pissed off when someone doesn’t GET what it is I do. I get paid to be me, okay? I get paid to share mySELF with the world. My thoughts, my lessons, my beliefs. I teach people what I know. And what I know is ME. Me includes –
- Parenting
- Business
- Relationships
- Friend
- Daughter
- Housecleaner
- First-Class Chef
- Professional Negotiator
- Money Master
Why is that so strange?
Why is it so hard to believe that you can honestly get paid to be YOU? It’s possible. And the sooner you believe it, the sonner you can experience it yourself.
The EASE that comes from living life the way you want, on your own terms.
The FLOW that comes from showing up and creatng for your community.
The EASE that comes from selling, selling, selling, all day long.
The FLOW that comes from being present in every moment of your life.
The EASE that comes from caring for your children and working on your business at the same time (no separating business and life!).
Can I ask you a question?
Why do you think things are so hard for you right now?
Why do you think everything is taking SO LONG?
Why do you think you can never seem to get ahead?
I’m willing to bet you’re doing ALL THE WORK.
You’re probably hustling your ass off!
You’re religiously writing in your journal every day.
You’re consistently creating content for your peeps.
You’re engaging in your community.
You’re growing your list.
And yes! You’re selling all day, every day, too!
But you STILL
CAN’T
GET
AHEAD
Right?
Listen –
I’m gonna give it to you straight and you’re probably not gonna like what I have to say, but it’s the truth and I’m only saying it to help you, so hear me out:
YOU’RE FUCKED.
You are completely and utterly FUCKED.
Here’s why: It’s REALLY damn easy to continue to get ahead. To continue to make more money. To continue to grow your presence. To continue to increase your awareness. To continue to get what you want in your business/life (SAME/SAME!). And if you aren’t able to do so, you’ve got some resistance problems around letting in what you want. You’re not allowing it to be yours.
And if you’re not allowing yourself to have what you want, YOU.ARE.FUCKED.
Now –
That’s not to say you can’t get un-fucked. You can absolutely change your ways. The problem is? Most people won’t. Being OKAY with how things are (Sure! I would like to be more successful, but I’m doing OKAY, and things are easy, so I’ll just keep doing what I’m doing and hope things get better.) is a cop-out.
That shit ain’t gonna fly.
You will NOT get what you want when you are willing to settle with what already is.
You have to give yourself permission to FUCK SHIT UP, make some noise, jump in, get your hands dirty, take risks, and REALLY go for what you want.
Allowing yourself to settle is one of the biggest sins you could make against yourself. So let’s not do that shit, okay? 🙂
I know you want more than what you have right now. Know that you can! Know that it’s possible! Know that it’s honestly right around the corner! But you’ve gotta believe and you’ve gotta put in the work.
You’ve gotta show up each and every day and give 100% of your SOUL to your work. You need to allow your writing to take you where it wants to go and just FLOWWWW. Everything that you do must be in alignment with your purpose in mind!
I was doing a livestream for my Money Flow Mastermind members (new enrollment happening soon, PM me if you want to get in before everyone else!!) as well as on my FB profile, and on both livestreams, I remember the feeling of being out of breath… because I had SO MUCH to say.
The message was being pushed through me, and I could barely keep up with getting it out of my head and into the heads of those listening to me on those livestreams!
That’s how you know that what you’re saying is IMPORTANT. NEEDS TO BE SAID. GET IT OUT THERE.
I was so rudely intrerrupted (kidding.. kinda.. don’t fuck with my flow, man!) by our sprinkler guy, so my flow was cut off and I was totally pissed because I was REALLY into it and there’s not much worse than being SO on to what it is that you’re doing and feeling, and then having to stop in the middle of it.
[Sidenote: I had to stop writing this post while I went and did a scheduled livestream because the stupid cafe here doesn’t open until 8AM(what in the hell is that crap??), and so my timing was off for getting my ME stuff done (journaling, messaging, money work, sales)! So it took me a bit to get back into flow as I sat down here about 10 minutes ago!]
When the flow is there, let it flow. Don’t stop the flow. Don’t block it up. Don’t try to wait and save it until later. Let it flow, regardless of what else is happening around you, regardless of the time of day. It’s a message. It must come out. It’s like –
And this is a gross analogy, so forgive me –
It’s like if you have to puke, but you really hate puking, so you try not to do it. And you feel it inside of you, begging to come out, to be unleashed! And you hold it in. Keep it to yourself. Don’t let it out!
How do you feel when you do that? Pretty shitty, right?
But if you just allow yourself to puke your brains out, allow it to FLOW out of you –
Once you’re done and there’s no more left inside that needs to come out, you feel –
COMPLETE.
Much better! Amazing, even!
The same is true for your messaging. You feel it inside of you. You KNOW it needs to come out. You KNOW whatever it is you are being led to say MUST be said, but you just.keep.resisting. You keep pushing it down. You keep holding it inside. And it hurts! It makes you feel physically ill.
So let it out.
Just let it FLOW out of you.
Because if it’s inside of you, and you feel that passion around you, you feel like you NEED to say something –
Then you MUST.
The more you continue to do this –
Just allow the message to come out, to flow, to be easy –
The more you will be able to create more content, passionate content, incredible content that your people will just EAT UP and thank you for! And that content is what makes you exciting/interesting/a LEADER.
Leaders get followed, grow empires, make money, have an impact.
You want to be a leader, yes?
So show up –
Do the work –
Share what’s on your heart –
Let the message flow –
Monetize that shit
And enjoy the fuck out of life.
Because it’s gonna be THAT much easier now that you know how to let the message flow. 🙂