Do you ever have one of those days where you feel completely blank, don’t know what to say, and feel overwhelmed with the thought of doing anything but just sitting down and eating a donut for breakfast?
Or how about the days when you do ALL THE THINGS, but at night, before you lie down to go to sleep, you wonder to yourself “what the fuck did I even DO today?”, feeling completely unaccomplished, even though you did so much?
Here’s the good news:
You’re not alone.
There are people out there, just like you, who ocassionally have a really shitty day, and also, have really freakin’ amazing days.
The other good news is this: You can have more amazing days than shitty days if you just decide to. Stop focusing on the shitty days or the shitty feelings, and focus on the amazing. That’s when the amazing happens.
This morning I woke up and immediately felt a sense of panic at all I need to do before I leave for the airport to go home to my big comfy bed and snuggly kitties.
I really wanted to sleep in. I didn’t want to throw the covers off and freeze my ass off (hot damn it’s COLD in the mornings here!). But I made a choice: A choice that I would feel ACCOMPLISHED and RELAXED today, during my travels.
And I can’t feel accomplished and relaxed if I don’t do my morning activities.
So I got up.
Shivered as I got dressed, made my mushroom coffee, sat down, and got my hustle on.
I journaled, I wrote. I did my sales activities. I answered client messages. I checked in with my team.
I did the things.
The only thing I didn’t do was write this, what I’m writing right now, to you.
Because I felt stuck. Didn’t know what to say. I knew what I wanted to say, which was something to do with “you are worthy” and also “stop believing your bullshit excuses and go get what you want”, but then I thought to myself that I talk about that stuff “too much” and so I probably shouldn’t write about it again, should I?
And then I just shook my head at myself and said “shut up, brain, I’m gonna say what needs to be heard”.
So here I am, right now, telling you this:
YOU ARE WORTHY.
Hear that and really know that because it’s true. It doesn’t matter if you’ve never run a business before. It doesn’t matter if you’ve always been broke. It doesn’t matter if you don’t have your coaching certification. It doesn’t matter if you don’t know what to say or how to do it.
You are STILL worthy.
You always have been worthy, and you always will be worthy, just because you are YOU.
You don’t need a reason to be worthy. You are worthy just because you are.
So accept it, and don’t argue with me. 🙂
Also:
YOUR EXCUSES ARE BULLSHIT.
All of ’em. For everything.
And you KNOW they’re excuses too, don’t you? Yet you allow them to continue to run your life.
The excuses are in your head. They’re all made up, completely untrue. They are keeping you stranded, unable to get to that next level that you’ve so desperately been chasing.
The excuse that you “don’t have the money”, so you can’t invest in something you want/need.
The excuse that you work full time and are “too tired” to spend any extra time on growing your business.
The excuse that you’re on vacation, and so you don’t wanna work (talk about an unaligned business!).
The excuse that it’s summer and your kids are home and you just can’t find the time to do stuff for YOU.
The excuse that you don’t know how to _____ (grow your list, do FB ads, launch a program, make more money), so you’re just gonna NOT do it (even though you know you want to).
They’re all bullshit.
BULLSHIT
BULLSHIT
BULLSHIT
Stop believing the lies that you feed yourself to keep yourself feeling safe. Admit it - you know these excuses are crap, but at the same time, the risk of NOT believing them and acting any way, scares the crap out of you!
What if you DO trust yourself and take action and then you fail?
What if you DO invest money in something but then it doesn’t work for you?
What if you DO take the time to do something for yourself and your family gets pissed that you stopped being their 24/7 servant?
The fear is REAL and I know it takes over you. I know that you’re terrified things will go badly if you just trust yourself, if you allow yourself to make that huge LEAP.
Even though you KNOW in your gut that it’s the right decision, you stop yourself from making it. You say “no, I can’t right now. I’m too busy/broke/scared to say YES to my soul. Maybe next time (but probably not)”, and then months go by and you wind up in the SAME DAMN PLACE asking yourself “how the fuck am I still here?”.
But deep down, knowing that if you had just said YES, if you had just trusted yourself, gave yourself PERMISSION to go after what you want, you just very well may be EXACTLY where you wanted to be by now.
You let your excuses run your life and that’s why you feel so tired, so broken, so unsure of yourself. It’s why you lack confidence, lack money, lack freedom
It’s time to let that shit go.
Wouldn’t it feel amazing if you just said YES to your heart’s desires, knowing that even if you didn’t physically have the resources to make them happen right this second, that just by saying YES, the universe startes re-arranging itself to manifest miracles for you? Knowing that saying YES to your soul is the first step in having the life that you want, and by saying yes, even if you don’t know HOW, you KNOW it’s gonna happen?
That’s called trust and it’s a requirement for success.
You’ve gotta trust yourself.
You’ve gotta trust the process.
You’ve gotta trust in the TRUSTING piece of it.
And then?
You need to LET THE FUCK GO.
No more trying to control the outcomes. No trying to force things to happen a certain way.
Your job?
Determine what your true desires are. Say YES to them and opportunities that will allow you to manifest them. TRUST that they are a done deal (because they are!). SURRENDER the outcome and know that everything will fall into place just perfectly, exactly when and how it’s meant to.
From there, it’s paying attention to the nudges, the inspired thoughts and ideas - and taking action on them when they come up.
[First Name], you are worthy just because you are. Your excuses don’t mean shit. Drop ’em. Let them go. And embrace what you already know to be true: That what you desire is meant for you, and it’s meant for you now.
May as well step up and claim it, huh?