1. Stop giving a fuck about what someone else tells you that you should or shouldn’t do. What is your soul guiding you to do? Do THAT.
2. Stop giving a fuck about haters who try and take you down. You’re a motherfucking warrior and those bitches are just jealous. 🙂
3. Stop giving a fuck about what that person is selling and this person is charging.. about anything.. let them do them and you do YOU. Trust your gut.
4. Stop giving a fuck about the naysayers who try to convince you that your dreams are too big. Just because tthey don’t know how to dream big, doesn’t mean you need to stop doing it just to meet them at their level.
5. Stop giving a fuck about your debt. Seriously. You’re focusing on it, which is giving it power, which is why you still HAVE IT. Give a fuck about wealth. Focus on THAT.
6. Stop giving a fuck about time. Time is an illusion. It’s totally made up. And it’s messing with your head by stressing out about a lack of it (there’s no such thing). It doesn’t matter how old you are, or how much time has passed, you can do ANYTHING.
7. Stop giving a fuck about things that aren’t important. Like making your website look professional. Or editing your sales page 745 times until it’s “perfect”. What IS important? Doing your mindset work, wealth creation & growth, engaging with your tribe, creating content, sales activity, having FUN.
8. Stop giving a fuck about webinars, or livestreams, or anything else that feels like a FUCK NO to you. Give a fuck about the stuff that lights you up and gets you excited. Do those things.
9. Stop giving a fuck about how many people are on your email list, or how many people “liked” your last Facebook post. It doesn’t fucking matter. Focus on growing your community & sharing your content, both at the same time. The right people will show up and you will continue to grow. It’s better to have 1,000 of the RIGHT people following/engaging, then to have 10,000 of the WRONG people following/
10. Stop giving a fuck about anything that doesn’t light you up. Honestly. Just stop giving it attention; drop it like it’s hot and move the fuck on. Do what fuels you, excites you, makes you feel AMAZING. Why would you wanna do less than that anyway?
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I could go on.
There are a lot of things you can stop giving a fuck about, but I think I’ve made my point, right? 🙂
It’s critical that you spend your days doing things that are good for your soul. Anything else is not worth giving your energy to.
If you want to grow and scale and elevate and EXPAND, then you’ve gotta learn to ditch anything that doesn’t allow for that.
You have to be brave enough to say NO to anything that doesn’t at all feel like a YES.
And you will be tested. You will have ample opportunity to PROVE that you are not willing to stand down from your boundaries and expectations.
Over and over again, you must prove it. Until it just becomes normal and natural.. and then you won’t be tested as much anymore.
I’ve turned 2 people down for the Expansion Mastermind in the last few days. One of them was not happy about it, and even went on to tell other people that I was a bitch. LOL
But.. she didn’t fit the criteria of who is ALLOWED into this mastermind. It’s a highly EXCLUSIVE space and only for a certain kind of person.
I stopped giving a fuck last year, when I was running this mastermind for the first time, about people who I said NO to, that were NOT happy about it.
I stopped giving a fuck about people who told me I was charging too much. (Even though others tell me I’m charging too little, ha!)
I stopped giving a fuck about people who talk shit about me behing my back and expect me to never find out (I have people, and I KNOW EVERYTHING, just FYI).
I stopped giving a fuck about any kind of drama I encountered.
I stopped giving a fuck about how good my website looked, or how many email subscribers I had, or how many people showed up for my livestreams.
I stopped giving a fuck about bills that would show up in the mail (and subsequently stopped receiving them almost all together.. I think I get maybe 2 per month now, both for under $300!).
I stopped giving a fuck about how I was being perceived, because it was too stressful, and just started to be/do/say WHATEVER I WANTED TO.
I simply stopped giving a fuck about the unimportant, unhelpful, unFUN stuff, and gave my fucks to the good shit instead.
And now I don’t hate my life and everyone in it.#win
Even though I understood the concept of “what you focus on, expands” (meaning: whatever you think about the most, is what you will experience), it took me a really long time to actually believe it FULLY.
But as soon as I made that shift, my whole world changed for the better.
I started to attract better, more aligned people into my life.
Money started to flow into my life on auto-pilot, in larger and larger amounts.
I was able to get out of a funk in seconds, instead of staying stuck there all day long.
Life went from good to HOLY FUCKING SHIT, IS THIS REALLY MY LIFE kind of amazing.
I want this for you, too.
I want you to know that you can have it all, that you can be who you wanna be, that you can experience all of the good things in life.
I want you to know that you don’t have to wait. You can have what you desire NOW.
I want you to know that no matter what anyone tells you, you are perfect just the way you are, and YES you are worthy of a life you love.
I just hope you’ll listen. I hope you’ll take action. I hope you’ll step up (for yourself) and live the life of your wildest dreams.
Always cheering you on,
— Cassie ❤