This is going to be a brutally honest message to you today (when isn’t it??! ha!)..
#1. You’re boring. You live a mediocre life (at best), and never share anything interesting. Therefore, no one finds you interesting, and no one is inspired by you and your life. BTW: No one likes to hang with or learn/buy from boring people.
#2. You quit before you succeed. You give up way too easily; usually right around the time it gets really hard. You’re a quitter. And quitters never win (I mean.. duh).
#3. You don’t invest in yourself. You try to do everything on your own to save money (which really just means to hoard your money because you’re afraid of being broke if you spend some of it… talk about scarcity mindset like WHOA), when what you need to do to get ahead is invest in a mentor that can shorten your learning curve and help you get results FASTER.
#4. You are flaky as fuck. You’re here for a few days, then you disappear, then you’re back and “going all in!”, and then you’re gone. You’re inconsistent and that’s lame.
#5. You have no story, no message, NOTHING to connect you with your audience. If people don’t know who you are, where you came from, and what you stand for (and against), they can’t form a connection with you. And if there’s no connection, they’re gone.
#6. You never actually ask for the sale. I’m not sure how you expect money to come in if you’re not asking for it. Also: It’s not enough to ask once. You keep asking, repeatedly. You never stop asking, in fact.
#7. You “don’t have the money” to invest in growing your business and your income. Which really just means you love to make excuses for your lack of progress. Go ahead and keep “saving up” to finally make an investment in your business… we both know that’ll never happen. Commit, figure it out, succeed. Not the other way around.
I mean, let’s be real:
You just don’t want it as bad as you say you do.
Otherwise, none of these things would be an issue and you’d be rolling in the cash, living the VIP life, and not worrying about a damn thing.
But what are you doing now?
Complaining.
Comparing.
Making excuses.
Not fully committing to yourself.
And can we take a minute to talk about spending money to make money?
Because I want to make something really clear before I’m attacked (bring it, bitches!) –
Investing in a mentor will make you more money. Every time. Because you’ve committed. You’ve DECIDED.
NOT investing in a mentor is COSTING you money.
Working with someone who is where you want to be is POWERFUL.
Just being in their energy is powerful, even if there is no “strategy” taught at all, you will STILL gain value just from being in their presence, having the opportunity to “pick their brain”..
You don’t get that from going it alone.
I put myself into a bunch of debt to pay for my mentors because I knew that just being able to talk to them would make my investment back 10x or more, and it always did.
Even the mentors that weren’t 100% a good fit for me. I still got value from them because they were where I wanted to be.
Soaking up the energy from someone in a position you want to be in, making the money you want to be making, living a lifestyle you want to be living - THAT is some truly powerful stuff, and that’s what you get working with a mentor.
Whether it was $6,000 or $15,000 or $20,000 or more, I didn’t freakin’ care! I found mentors who were a “HELL FREAKIN’ YES, SIGN ME UP RIGHT NOW” and I figured it out.
I commit first.
I said YES.
And what happened next (and what ALWAYS happens next, in my experience) is that the universe moved mountains for me to find that money to pay for those mentors.
The money always showed up AFTER I said yes, not before.
That’s the power of committment, baby!
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Time to step up.
Time to make the decision that you are going to reach your goals (and really freakin’ mean it this time).
Time to say YES to that dream mentor.
Time to “figure it out”.
And time to MAKE SHIT HAPPEN!
xx,
Cassie