Have you allowed yourself to REALLY ask for what you want?
I mean, really, truly, gone within and asked yourself for complete clarity on exactly what you want.
Whether it’s money stuff, body stuff, relationship stuff, lifestyle stuff, or something else? Exactly what is it?
Get clear. Crystal fucking clear. The universe loves specificity. Think colours, numbers, sizes, locations, people, experiences… all of it.
I think back to when I manifested my first big thing - my Cadillac Escalade. Dream car for over a decade. Manifested back in 2015 (in just a few months).
How?
I got specific.
No older than 2013. Black for sure. Interior and exterior. A certain number of kilometres or less (I forget the exact number). Pristine condition. Under $100K.
I would point them out when I saw them on the road and feel all the feel-good feelings I know I would feel if I was driving one.
If I saw one in a parking lot, I would make sure no one was inside, and then I would raun my hand along the side of it and stare at it with awe (LOL!).
I looked up deals online.
I pictured myself driving it. I sometimes pretended the mom van I was driving, was actually an Escalade, ha!
And at my core, I knew it was mine. I knew it was DONE. I didn’t know when I would get it or how I would get it, but I just knew it was done. I didn’t have to worry about it.
And then it was mine. Just like that.
Of course, the BELIEF that it was gonna happen was the main reason it happened, but the SPECIFICITY was a key componant to this manifestation, as well.
I knew exactly what I wanted, and I expected it. I simply wasn’t available for anything less.
And I got everything I wanted - and more!
So again I ask you –
Have you allowed yourself to REALLY ask for what you want, with complete clarity around the exact specifics of it?
One of my favorite affirmations that I journal on daily is this:
“I always get what I want, or better.”
Because, the truth is, sometimes you don’t get what you want - not because you aren’t worthy, or because you don’t deserve it, or because you didn’t work hard enough for it - but sometimes you don’t get what you want because you’re meant to have something even better.
So yes, decide on what you want. Be specific about it. And then LET IT THE FUCK GO. Expect that it, or something better, will show up in your life at the most PERFECT time.
One of the things I did for years and years and years, that totally fucked up my mindset around receiving, is try to manufacture exactly how something was going to come to pass in my life.
I spent so much time planning, making step-by-step plans, and esentially trying to FORCE something into my life.
It was exhausting.
And the sad thing is that it rarely EVER worked, and if it did, and I did get what I wanted, I either didn’t care anymore, or I didn’t feel as good as I thought I would when I received it.
What a waste!
If I only knew then what I know now - you get what you want when you’re an energetic match for it, not because you have the perfect plan to manifest it (tip: these perfect plans rarely work and cause more stress than just deciding and acting accordingly).
So I got the dream car. Drove that beauty for 3 solid years before I sadly said goodbye when I felt our time together was up.
It was then that I manifested my dream “sports car” (it’s not really a sports car because it has 4 doors, but compared to anything else I’ve ever driven, it’s a motherfucking sports car, and that’s what I’m going with).
I also got a fancy, gigantic, 8,000 square-foot home. Then the 4,000 square-foot home that was more “homey” and in a better location for us.
I got the money. Over $1.7 million dollars CASH in 4 years.
I got the perfect, soulmate clients that were completely ideal for me and me for them.
I got the business class travel. The MULTIPLE trips every single year, with friends and with family.
I got the support. The assistants. The house cleaning. The grocery delivery. The meal delivery. The manager. The designer.
I got the new business with the perfect partners.
I got the free time.
I got the FREEDOM.
All because I was specific about what I wanted, and I decided that it was done, and wasn’t available for anything less.
And then it was mine (or better!).
When you open up your mind to what you truly desire, and you allow yourself to really go for it, and see it as DONE, then it has a much better chance of becoming so than if you kept all of those thoughts and dreams in your head and never fully believed your were worthy or capable of having them, don’t ya think?
So, today, get honest with yourself.
What do you want?
What do you really, REALLY want?
Decide. It’s up to you.
xx,
Cassie