I think we are so fucking terrified of doing it “wrong” that we tend to stay in this place of stuck-ness, where we’re not FULLY diving in and living the life we want to be living.
So worried about someone else may think if you say that thing that you’re thinking.
So terrified that someone may not agree with a post or a video or a STATEMENT that you make on the internet (or off).
So afraid that you’ll put out something for sale and no one will buy.
And so you stay, frozen, unable to move, because… what if?!
It doesn’t help that practically all of your family doesn’t understand what you do and so they’re practically begging you to stop, to be “responsible”, to get a “real” job.
And though your spouse is supportive, you know that they’re clueless as fuck about what the hell you do all day, and that makes them just a lil’ uncomfortable.
You’re feeling AFRAID to do anything, afraid of any possible next move you could take because you’re so unsure of it it will work or not?
What if I launch this program and no one buys?
What if I post this thing and someone gets mad and talks shit about me?
What if my client quits on me and asks for a refund?
What if I can’t pay my bills next month?
You’re living in a life of what-ifs instead of just riding the waves of uncertainty and letting them guide you.
Here’s the truth:
THERE IS A FEELING OF CERTAINTY DEEP WITHIN ALL FEELINGS OF UNCERTAINTY.
Meaning –
Even though on the surface you may feel as though you’re uncertain about something, deep down, you KNOW exactly what to do.
The work, is, of course, uncovering that action.
To do this, you need to give time and energy and attention to going deep within and pulling that action out.
Anyone can do it.
But we’re so focused on finding the answer outside of ourselves that we can’t uncover the answers that are already inside.
Sometimes you need help focusing on getting the answers from within, but make no mistake, ALL OF THE ANSWERS are already inside of YOU.
No matter what you’re worried about right now, or thinking about, or considering, know this –
The answer is already there. You already have it. Give yourself permission to hear it. ❤
Cheering for you always,
Cassie