I’m going to tell you something that you may not want to hear. I definitely didn’t want to hear it when I was first told this.
Yet - it needs to be said, and it needs to be HEARD. By you. By everyone who is either working with a coach currently, or about to hire one.
This is the absolute truth:
Hiring a coach is not a get-out-of-jail-free card.
Hiring a coach because you think that by doing so will somehow magically SAVE you, is a mistake. A costly one.
Your coach? Her job is NOT to save you. It’s not to give you a little map to follow and if you do so, you will 100% guarantee you get the result you want.
This is not possible, because your coach is not you. Only you can do the work. Only you can fully commit. Only you can believe in yourself. Only you can trust. Only YOU can get the results.
I used to be so terrified when I’d start working with new clients, because I would accept responsibility for their results, when it was not my job to do so.
I now see that I was doing these clients a huge disservice by not giving them what it was they really, truly needed - which was motivation, encouragement, and support.
I didn’t need to tell them how to do THEIR work - THEY ALREADY KNOW.
I also didn’t need to give them a list of stuff they had to do in order to GET _____ result because some of those things wouldn’t have felt in alignment for them, which of course means they weren’t RIGHT for them and they actually should not have done them.
Looking back, I wish I had put more trust in my clients.
I did what I thought was best of course, but what I know now is that I tried to control their actions. I tried to tell them what to do based on what I did - and that wasn’t necessarily going to work for everyone.
The thing is –
You already know what to do.
To make the money
To attract the clients and the sales
To create something amazing
To manifest what you desire
You KNOW the answers. They’re already inside of you.
The problem is, you can’t access them, and the reason you can’t access them is because you have this non-serving belief that a coach is the only way out. The only way to succeed.
I’m here to tell you that you can do it all on your own. I don’t recommend it, of course, unless you wanna drive yourself crazy, but you CAN do it.
Hiring a coach is an OPTION.
An option to scale your profits quicker. Not because your coach is going to teach you some magic strategy to amassing millions of dollars in 5 minutes –
But because you’re in the ENERGY of someone who IS where you want to be, and/or who HAS what it is you desire to have.
Hiring a coach to SAVE you, thinking that by doing so, you’re now guaranteed to make boatloads of money based on some special tricks they teach you, is just plain naive.
You may very well make boatloads of money! But it won’t be from a special strategy or a specific training.
It will be from being in their energy.
Being around someone (whether in person or virtually) that has/is what you want to have/be is ALWAYS going to elevate you quicker.
Being around someone who has the money you want to have in your life, is FOR SURE going to get you to uplevel and start receiving more money.
Being around someone who has the body you want to have, is 100% going to get you to upgrade your mindset and actions and have you creating the body.
Being around someone who has the lifestyle you want to have, is ABSOLUTELY going to get you to raise your vibe around YOUR lifestyle, and in turn, create said lifestyle for yourself.
THIS is why we hire coaches.
We hire coaches to inspire us.
We hire coaches to push us outside of our comfort zone.
We hire coaches to hold us accountable to our goals.
We hire coaches to encourage us.
We hire coaches to show us how to persevere. How to show up and get what we want. How to tune in to who really are. How to go all the way in on our dreams.
We don’t hire coaches to save us.
Only you can save you.
Of all my clients and students, the ones who make the MOST money?
Are the ones who don’t ask me how to make money.
They are the ones who do the work, day after day, without hesitation. Not because they have to, but because they want to.
They are the ones who don’t allow fear to guide them.
They are the ones who take action based on soul and on flow and on alignment.
They are the ones who take full responsibility for their actions (or lack thereof).
They are the ones who trust their gut and act accordingly.
They are the ones who never, ever, even THINK of giving up.
They are the ones who believe in their dreams, in themselves, and who TRUST and EXPECT that everything they desire will happen for them in PERFECT TIMING.
They are the ones who don’t have a backup plan - who are committed to doing the work they do for the rest of their days because they know it is their SOUL work and what they are meant to give their life for.
You have the power within you to do great things in the world.
You have what it takes to create a life you are absolutely madly in love with.
You just need to remember who you are.
And you need to back yourself. You need to go all in. You need to commit.
And then, you will fly.