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by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
Every time you say no to something you feel deep in your soul is actually meant to be a yes, you’re pushing away what you want, further and further. Eventually, it will be so damn far away that you can’t even see it anymore. You start to forget what it is you actually wanted. And you’ll continue to live your life going through the motions, always pushing away your desires (unknowingly, but it’s happening).The next thing you know, you’re on your death bed and you’re wondering what the fuck you even did with your life.You’re wishing you took more risks.You’re wishing you actually listened to your soul and took action on the things that felt SO right (even though they also felt so scary).You’re wishing you had done more, said more, experienced more. And you will die, not necessarily unhappy, but not completely fulfilled. And wouldn’t that just be a tragedy?I can’t think of anything worse than being on my death bed, knowing I could have done/seen/said/experienced more, and didn’t. When it’s my time to go, I want to know that I lived my life to the fullest and I did all that I could to make my dreams a reality. In truth, there’s not a doubt in my mind that I’ll accomplish all that I desire. I REFUSE to settle for less than I want. But I’d be lying if I said there weren’t times when I just wanted to take the easy road… because the one I’m on is full of potholes and sprinting deer that I have to watch for, and swerve around.Trusting your gut is hard AF sometimes. Because it’s scary. Because...
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by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
1. the more energy you put toward receiving money, the more money you will ultimately receive. don’t focus on the lack of money you may be experiencing, but on the money you WANT. 2. if you want people to buy from you, ask them to buy from you. don’t expect them to know how they can work with you. tell them.3. you get what you expect. start expecting more sales if you want more sales. #basicreminder4. the more you have available to buy, the more choices people have to get what they want from you = the more money you make and the more people you help. 5. selling = helping. by selling someone something they need, you are helping them.6. you have GIFTS inside of you. gifts that have the ability to change lives. by keeping those gifts inside of you, you’re being a selfish jerk. 🙂 people need what you can sell to them (and help them with). 7. your audience is getting bored AF with your offers because you keep selling the same damn thing over and over. be INTERESTING. change up what you’re selling, or the way you’re selling it. 8. there are a million & one ways to make money online. don’t get stuck in one little box. (private coaching, group coaching, sponsorships, affilate marketing, products, in person or online group events, workshops, private client days, brand ambassadorships, and on and on we go.. 🙂)9. stop selling shit you hate, okay? it never works. people can tell you’re not into it which makes THEM not into it. the more you just do whatever the fuck you want, the more (and the faster)...
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by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
I think we are so fucking terrified of doing it “wrong” that we tend to stay in this place of stuck-ness, where we’re not FULLY diving in and living the life we want to be living.So worried about someone else may think if you say that thing that you’re thinking. So terrified that someone may not agree with a post or a video or a STATEMENT that you make on the internet (or off).So afraid that you’ll put out something for sale and no one will buy. And so you stay, frozen, unable to move, because… what if?!It doesn’t help that practically all of your family doesn’t understand what you do and so they’re practically begging you to stop, to be “responsible”, to get a “real” job. And though your spouse is supportive, you know that they’re clueless as fuck about what the hell you do all day, and that makes them just a lil’ uncomfortable. You’re feeling AFRAID to do anything, afraid of any possible next move you could take because you’re so unsure of it it will work or not?What if I launch this program and no one buys?What if I post this thing and someone gets mad and talks shit about me?What if my client quits on me and asks for a refund?What if I can’t pay my bills next month?You’re living in a life of what-ifs instead of just riding the waves of uncertainty and letting them guide you. Here’s the truth: THERE IS A FEELING OF CERTAINTY DEEP WITHIN ALL FEELINGS OF UNCERTAINTY. Meaning – Even though on the surface you may feel as though you’re uncertain about something, deep down, you...
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by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
★ Wake up and choose it. Choose happiness. I don’t care what annoying shit is going on in your life right now. It doesn’t matter what happened yesterday. Today you choose whether to be happy or not. ★ Be yourself 100% of the time. A lot of people won’t like you because of it. A lot of people won’t understand you. And a lot of people will love the shit out of you because you keep it real. But most importantly? It’s just so much EASIER to be you and not the phony version of you that you think people want to see.★ Say what you know needs to be said to the people you know need to hear it. You will offend people. You will hurt feelings. You will have so much shit talked about you behind your back (and sometimes to your face) because of this. Do it anyway. You’re changing lives, and whether those people want to admit it or not, they need you. And again, it’s so much easier to speak the truth than it is to bite your tongue.★ Spend time in the sunshine. Slather on the sunscreen; no one likes cancer. Soak up the rays. Remember to close your eyes, lean back, and let the sun hit your face. Feel the warmth. Breathe in the air deeply. (This is the #1 thing that makes me feel happiness.)★ Journal. Write. Every day. Even if it’s just 2 short sentences. Clear out your head and get it onto paper (actual paper, with a pen, none of this writing on your laptop bullshit, that’s not the same). Call...
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by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
It’s been almost 2 weeks since I released my very first print book. It’s still weird to walk by a bookshelf and see my face on it. It’s been an incredible experience and I’m so thankful for it, and for everyone that supported me on this journey. This morning, I was thinking about all the things that went right with this release, and all the things I would do differently next time.. it was pretty eye-opening, so I thought I’d share, in case you were considering publishing a book of your own, too. 😉1. Publishing a book is REALLY easy.I was terrified that it would be hard, and would require a lot of time, money and effort on my part, to write a book and launch it into the world.Turns out that none of that is true. It’s actually one of the easiest things I’ve done!2. It doesn’t need to take a long time to get your book written and into the hands of others. I’d read countless stories and articles from successful authors who confessed that it took them a year or more to write their book, and often the same amount of time to publish it after it was written.I am not a patient person, so I REALLY didn’t like the idea of waiting around 2 years or more to write and release a book! I decided in the middle of 2018 that I would write a book and that I would release it at the beginning of 2019. And here we are. 🙂 When you’re committed to something, and you put forth the effort to make it happen, it will happen. 3. Don’t be...
