by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
If you would just open up your eyes, you would SEE that right now, you’re settling. Accepting less than you deserve. Less than you want. You’re not allowing yourself to FULLY go after what you want in life. Because of fear. Or overwhelm. Or uncertainty. Or some other kind of excuse - it IS an excuse. You don’t have to settle. You don’t have to struggle. There IS another way, and that way is the way that will feel the easiest, the most fun, and, of course, will get you exactly what it is that you desire (or better!). But first you need to trust. You need to believe that everything is working out in your favor (because it is). You need to trust that you will always make the right decision. You need to trust your GUT when it comes to taking action. And you need to ALLOW yourself to receive your desires. And then, you WILL. ❤I believe in you. I know you’re powerful and can do big things. You’re HERE to do big things. You know this - so why aren’t you acceping it and acting accordingly? It’s time to pull back the curtain on your life, take a good hard look at what you’ve created, and then ask yourself – Is this what I REALLY want?If not? Time to shake things up. Follow the intuitive nudges. Those little voices inside your head that tell you “this way” or “do this”.. The feeling you get inside of you (to me it feels like butterflies in my stomach) that kinda sorta makes you wanna puke but you know is THE answer. The one you’ve been searching for. It’s time...
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by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
Let’s talk about fear. That gremlin in your head that tells you why you shouldn’t do something.“Don’t buy that thing, you might regret it!”“Don’t talk to that person, they might do something to harm you!”“Don’t agree to that thing, it might not end up the way you want it to end up!”“Don’t invest in that person, they might rip you off!”“Don’t share that opinion, people might disagree and make you look stupid for sharing it!”And so you continually don’t do the scary thing because OMG WHAT IF?!Aren’t you tired of being a slave to the fear? Are you sure you really want to live that way? Where your every thought, desire, and belief are always pushed aside so fear can take their place? Aren’t you feeling sick of being in the same damn place that you’ve been at for the past year, 2 years or more - constantly craving more, but never experiencing it because your fear is holding you back?If you think about it – You staying STUCK has really been making you feel down. You go to bed with that feeling in your heart that, yet again, you didn’t show the fuck up all the way, you played it safe, you AGAIN didn’t take the leap, and so..You’re. Still. STUCK. And this goes on for weeks, months, even YEARS, where you desperately WANT more, but you just can’t seem to get there – You always feel like crap. You’re tired as hell. You’re incredibly frustrated. And you keep SAYING you’re done, you keep SAYING this is “your time”. But it just..Never is. Never happens. Not the way you want it to, anyway. That’s for the...
by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
The thing that really pisses me off in the online coaching industry is the bullshit rule that you have to do things a certain way in order to be successful.You don’t have to do webinars. You don’t have to do sales calls.You don’t have to write 1,000 word blog posts every day.You don’t have to use Facebook ads. You don’t have to hire a copywriter. You don’t have to do market research or nail down your ICA or determine your “niche”. (LOL!)You don’t have to use Twitter and Pinterest and Instagram and every other social media platform ever created, so that you can “be everywhere”.You don’t any of it. Nada. Except for show the fuck up and do the damn thing. The THING being, of course, sharing your message with the world. Being your own freakin’ self and sharing YOU.Just the whole CONCEPT of trying to fit yourself into some perfect little entrepreneurial box is maddening, don’t you think?I bought into this lie for years, doing all kinds of things I thought I HAD to do, but things that didn’t really FEEL good for me. And I won’t say that it didn’t work, in terms of making money, because it DID. I made a lot of fucking money ticking all of my boxes and following all the rules. But after awhile, I didn’t even want it anymore. I’d traded in my SOUL for money. And I felt like a total fucking fraud. How could I be preaching authenticity when I was being fake as fuck, trying to be someone I, deep down, just WASN’T?Eventually I got pretty tired of the whole charade, and ditched the rules...
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by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
Here’s some advice for the fearful ones that think no matter what they do, they’re doing it wrong, they’re gonna mess it up, or it’s not gonna work because maybe in the past they maybe failed.. STOP CARING.Stop giving a shit about the failures you may have had in the past.Stop spending time doing stuff that you don’t actually wanna do just because someone else told you that you should.Stop worrying about crap like algorithms, likes on your posts, or colors you should use in your branding. *insert eye roll*What you really need to worry about, if you’re gonna worry about anything at all, is whether or not you’re doing your soul work. The work your soul longs for you to do. The work that fuels you and makes you feel ALIVE. If you’re not spending every waking moment of every day doing that, what the hell are you actually doing with your life?Your soul work is way more important to worry about than how many people saw your kast Facebook post. I mean, come on. What are we, vanity whores? Fall in love with doing your soul work and you’ll never have to worry about numbers again. The numbers will always work out in your favor if you’re doing what sets your soul on fire. So do that. Trust that. Take action based on soul feelings. Soul tugs. Soul pulls. Soul desires. You know what I’m talking about here, right? When you feel those butterflies in your stomach and the idea that just popped into your head makes you feel giddy with joy - that’s what you should be doing. Even if it’s scary. Even if you...
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by Cassie Howard | Jun 24, 2019 | Miscellaneous |
Whatever it is that you desire in life, what you’ve been working so fucking hard to achieve/receive/HAVE in your life – It’s all possible for you. In fact, it’s so possible for you that you could have had it ages ago, had you just believed in your damn self, and in the POSSIBILITY of having the thing, whatever the thing may be. The truth is: Most people will never have what they want. Most people will live mediocre lives, doing shit they maybe don’t hate, but definitely TOLERATE because they think they have to, and every day they will dream that they can have what they want - but they will NEVER have it. It will never manifest fully for them.They will spend their days wishing and hoping, and crossing their fingers that one day, just maybe they will receive the things they desire. But, sadly, they will not. And this isn’t because they aren’t worthy, or undeserving, or even because they don’t know HOW – It’s because they aren’t firmly planted in the belief that it’s already theirs. Not just that they’re worthy and capable of having it, but because their belief simply isn’t strong enough. I see you working your ass off, day in and day out. I see you writing 500+ word posts every damn day of the week. I see you selling your programs. I see you engaging with your tribe. I see you buying the programs, taking the courses, doing the WORK.But you’re still not THERE yet.You can’t ever seem to GET there, can you? That coveted place that only a select group of people ever seem to get to in their life. The place...
