HOW BAD DO YOU WANT IT?

HOW BAD DO YOU WANT IT?

Here’s the thing:  Not everyone is gonna make it.  Not everyone is going to get the results, have the success they want,  or live the life they crave. It’s sad, but it’s the damn truth. Most people that you meet will live their days doing shit they don’t wanna do, because they were told and/or believe that they have to.  They won’t ever get to experience what it’s like to live life on their terms. And this frustrates me beyond belief because all I want to do is help people to have it all. I want them to see just how EASY it can be to be, do and have the things that they desire.  But… They cant. And they won’t. Because they’re not willing to go all in.  They’re not willing to do the work (yeah, there is work involved, you DO need to roll up your sleeves and get shit done!), or at least not all the time anyway! They’d rather go over here and do this, or go over there and do that, that’s way more fun. Well yeah, so then don’t expect to have it all.  The thing about success (money success, life success, body success, relationship success, business success… whatever), is that it requires you to work your motherfucking ass off. I’m sorry, hate to break it to ya - but you’ve gotta WERK, GIRL. The work can be easy, it can be exciting & fun, and it doesn’t even need to FEEL like work, but the work MUST. GET. DONE. There’s no other way around it.  I am where I am today because...
I know a secret about you…

I know a secret about you…

There’s a thing you do..  A thing you CONTINUALLY do..  That’s driving you deeper and deeper still into that big black hole of hell that makes you feel opressed, depressed, and tired as fuck.  You can claw your way around in that hole all you want, but.. sorry to break it to ya –  You ain’t coming out. You’re stuck. Down there. Until –  You get over your motherfucking bullshit that is keeping you so damn stuck.  Right now you’re overwhelmed as all else. Looking at this chick and that chick and OMG HOW DO THEY DO THAT? You look at women like me, and others LIKE me, and wonder… how is it so easy for them? I don’t get it. What am I doing wrong? It’s like she has some kind of magic touch - everything she does seems to succeed. I want that! You’ve done all the things.  Created programs that were a hell yes for you but that no one bought (talk about a smack in the face that was) Been talking to a potential client who were all YES, I’M IN! but then disappeared and never signed up to work with you (ouch) Gave away tons and tons of free content to HOPEFULLY be seen as THE expert that people should want to hire, but who didn’t (that’s embarassing) You’ve given up time, blood, sweat, tears… a whole ton of tears… and you’re frustrated as hell right now.  If we’re being honest here, you’ve been settling. Settling for what’s easy, what you don’t have to push to achieve. When really, you LOVE the push. You...
WHAT I DO EVERY DAY THAT BRINGS IN HALF-A-MILLION DOLLARS PER YEAR

WHAT I DO EVERY DAY THAT BRINGS IN HALF-A-MILLION DOLLARS PER YEAR

If you want to be good at anything, you need to practice. It doesn’t happen overnight - you don’t get to be the best at what you do if you don’t first TRY, and then PERFECT what you do. Practice. On repeat. Day after freakin’ day, forever and ever.  This applies to EVERYTHING. To money. To a super hot bod.  To a fantastic relationship.  To incredible health.  To perfect, soulmate clients. To the most amazing friends. To freedom. To business.  To your ideal lifestyle. Practice = improvements = success. Obviously “success” is gonna look different to everyone, so first off, clearly define what it means to YOU, and then, start practicing and getting really good at the stuff you want to be good AT.  I spend every day doing a lot of the same stuff, on repeat, getting better and better each day that I do it. Learning more every time I step up, take the action, do the work, lean into it.  It’s how I’ve become so good at selling. It’s how I’ve called in the best friendships I’ve had in years. It’s how I’ve written books and blogs and programs and emails (and more still!). It’s how I’ve manifested over a million dollars online in less than 3 years.  It’s how I do errrrythang.  Practice.  I spend time DAILY doing the work that matters.  Wanna know what I do every day? The stuff that really moves the needle and makes a HUGE impact in getting the SUCCESS I choose in life?  Each day looks a little something like this:  4am-6am: Wake-up (the time varies, but is usually...
THIS IS THE HUSTLE (IT’S NOT WHAT YOU THINK…)

THIS IS THE HUSTLE (IT’S NOT WHAT YOU THINK…)

Some people don’t like to “hustle” and those people often don’t fully understand what the hustle actually is, hence why they don’t like it. To each one of us, it has a different meaning, but in order for it to fulfill you and make you happy (and it can), you must clearly define it in a way that feels good to YOU. Hustle is not at all about working 24/7.  Hustle is not about sleeping less and working more.  Hustle is not about always being online. Hustle is not about constantly being attatched to your phone and laptop. Hustle is freedom. Or at least, it can be, if you choose for it to be. To me, hustle means something completely different than just buckling down and “doing the work”. The hustle is just as much me “working” as it is me playing and having fun. The hustle is showing up every day, and writing my thoughts. The hustle is me making decisions: about what I’m going to write, create, sell, etc. The hustle is sharing my message in a way that speaks to as many people as possible. The hustle is connecting/speaking to my community. The hustle is talking to my clients and my own mentors and sharing my thoughts with them. The hustle is scheduling my day around things that light me up. The hustle is about having no schedule at all sometimes. 🙂  The hustle is about living my life and sharing it on the internet. The hustle is about me. Have you made the hustle about you? Because here’s something important that I really want you to...
I made a huge, inconvenient, $120,000 mistake…

I made a huge, inconvenient, $120,000 mistake…

We move in 7 days.  It’s been less than a year since we moved into our current home, which, when we first did so, I lovingly named the Conscious Creators Castle. We’re not moving because the house sucks or because it’s too expensive or because we hate the neighborhood. We’re moving because we don’t like living in a big house.  Growing up, the dream was always to make enough money to live in a big house with a family, making money doing what I love. I don’t know why I wanted a big house. I’d never lived in one before. I don’t think I’d ever even BEEN in one before. But yet, that was always the goal. A big house. To prove that I’d “made it”, I guess? To myself, to my family, to others?  “Hey look at me, I make so much money that I can afford this huge house!” And yeah - maybe that’s true, but… why would I? Live in a huge house, I mean… When I first found this house, it was so gorgeous, so luxurious, I had to go and see it, which just made me fall in love with it more. I felt so good when I was finally inside, imagining my family and I living there. So I said YES, WE’LL TAKE IT, without really giving any thought to that tiny little tug I was feeling. The one that was saying “ehhhhh I dunno….”. I listened to my head (“I have to prove that I’ve made it!”) instead of my gut (“this isn’t what you actually want”).  My husband felt the same, but didn’t say anything, trying to do what...