10 WAYS YOU’RE SABOTAGING YOURSELF RIGHT NOW {AND HOW TO STOP}

10 WAYS YOU’RE SABOTAGING YOURSELF RIGHT NOW {AND HOW TO STOP}

Do you find it hard to ever get ahead? Do you feel as though as soon as things start going well for you, they quickly then come CRASHING down? You make more money, then you lose it. You grow your community, and then people leave. You create more content, and then you stop. It just never seems to continue.. the good stuff, I mean… right? Well, I hate to be the one to break it to you, but that’s your own fault. If you want things to be amazing, you have to make them amazing. If you want things to STAY amazing, you have to make sure they STAY amazing!  You’re the one that’s sabbotaging yourself and your success. It doesn’t matter what’s happening in your world, the experiences that you are having right now are all on YOU. No other outside source is conspiring against you. Those experiences are all being brought on by YOU.  The sabbotaging you’re doing to yourself right now? It’s time to put an end to it, don’t you think? 10 WAYS YOU’RE SABBOTAGING YOURSELF RIGHT NOW {AND HOW TO STOP} 1. You’re giving up too easily. Let me just tell you that in all seriousness: it gets harder before it gets easier, but it DOES get easier. Failure and mistakes are a beautiful part of the process. Instead of being pissed off and upset when they happen, learn to embrace and learn from them.  Give yourself permission to fuck it all up, if that’s what’s necessary to create the life that you want. Sometimes you have to hit rock bottom before you can...
THIS is what happens when you make a freakin’ decision & DO THE WORK…

THIS is what happens when you make a freakin’ decision & DO THE WORK…

There is something ridiculous happening right now in the online space that is driving me crazy: the broke leading the broke. Not even kidding. Men & women who are broke as fuck teaching other men & women how to make money. SAY WHAAAAAT?  I’m honestly really surprised that people still fall for this. It’s SO obvious to me when someone is lying and making shit up!  Nothing makes me more sick to my stomach than this kind of shit and someone needs to call it out and call it out BIG. So here’s what I want to say to those of you that are teaching other people how to make money when you make jack shit yourself: STOP IT.  Because we KNOW.  It’s so EASY to see that you’re full of crap. You put a big, huge TARGET on your back. If I see you do it again, I WILL call you out publicly and shame you (you know who you are). Because as unethical as it is to teach something YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT, it’s also just plain STUPID. I mean, why would you WANT to do that anyway? Is it because you think people will only hire you if what you’re teaching is “how to make money”? Because that’s crap. Just ask my friend Carrie, who signs on $7,500 VIP clients! Here is a bit of advice for those of you that believe in order to make money teaching people how to make money is the only way: DO WHAT YOU LOVE. TEACH WHAT YOU’RE GOOD AT!  Even if it does come down to money, teach certain...
I’m not willing to settle and you shouldn’t be either!

I’m not willing to settle and you shouldn’t be either!

I was so excited yesterday because I was going to look at a home that I was SO SURE would be “the one”.  I looked up the area extensively before booking the appointment and confirmed that I wanted to make the drive to check it out. It was in an incredible area (one I desired to live in for years but never thought I could afford), the schools were ranked exceptionally well, and it was close to EVERYTHING (including my favourite vegan restaurant that I currently drive 40 minutes to go to each week!). The price was under what I wanted to spend, too, which was a bonus! But when I walked through the house, as much as I WANTED to love it, I just… didn’t.  It wasn’t like other homes I’d toured that gave me that “holy shit, this house is fucking incredible, I’d feel amazing living here!”. Instead it gave me a feeling of “it’s okay”, a feeling I tried to push to the back of my mind because OMG THE AREA, maybe I should just suck it up and accept that this is the best there is.  Maybe I am being unrealistic about what I want. Maybe I am being a bit TOO demanding.  Maybe I just need to stop being such a diva and take what I can get.  Except… no.  I’m not willing to do that. I’m not willing to settle. I’ve never let my “unrealistic” goals stop me before and I sure as hell am not gonna stop now!  I’ve been on the hunt for my dream home for a few months now,...
THIS IS WHY I LOVE MY BADASS COMMUNITY!

THIS IS WHY I LOVE MY BADASS COMMUNITY!

This morning I was journaling about my soulmate clients and who I desired to be working with and supporting right now (something I do pretty much daily), and I was writing, I realized that I already DO work with these people! And if I don’t work with them privately, they’re in my membership program or part of some other type of group offer I’m running.  I started asking myself: “How did this get so easy?” “How could I possibly be working with such badasses that inspire ME on the regular?” “How the hell did this happen?” And it hit me like a ton of bricks –  It happened because I decided it was going to happen. I wrote it out my journal every single freakin’ day that I only worked with soulmate clients. It also happened because I was super clear on who those clients were exactly –  Their personality traits Their beliefs Their attitude  Their goals and dreams Their vision I got clear on –  How they felt about certain things What they stood for What they were 100% AGAINST How they spent their time How they acted and performed I got clear on it ALL. I was very, VERY specific. And now? Now, the only clients I work with are badass men & women that are the EXACT soulmate clients I write about each day! Not even just as paying clients, but my COMMUNITY as a whole. Everyone that sets foot into my Facebook Group or joins my mailing list is a Badass Boss™ that fits all the criteria I’ve personally outlined as “soulmate material”! And if...
The difference between THEM and US …

The difference between THEM and US …

You and I are a special breed of the human race. We’re NOT like most people. In fact, we are very VERY different from most, and if we’re being completely honest, we kind of ENJOY being so different! I was thinking this morning about how I’ve called in very specific people to my tribe. People like you. People who are on the same wavelength and play at the same level as me. Other badasses, basically. 🙂 And I’m just so grateful to be surrounded by other people who just GET IT. Who just KNOW, deep within their soul that they have a fire that burns so powerfully inside of themselves and that NOTHING is gonna stop them from letting it burn. Until the day we DIE, we will let that fire burn! Because the burn is what we yearn for. The burn is what we want. That FIRE is our ultimate goal and keeping that fire going is the chase, and the hunt is what truly FUELS us.  We don’t wake up and chase the money, we chase the FIRE.  We chase the pleasure of feeling that fire burn inside of our souls. And nothing (NOTHING!) can even come close to exciting us more than that.  Do you remember when you used to wonder what the hell your purpose in life is? Do you ever think back to when it used to be so HARD for you to just get through the day?  I do, and I make it a point to think back on those days every so often to remind myself of what could be my life...