What you need to accept if you want to achieve more in your biz

What you need to accept if you want to achieve more in your biz

Enough is enough with the head games you’re playing with yourself. Saying you want one thing but then accepting another. Being adamant that THIS IS YOUR TIME, but then giving up when things feel hard.  Listen, you and I both know that there’s only one thing you truly want in life. The question is, why the fuck haven’t you stepped up and taken it? Because yes, that really is what you need to do.  The first step in receiving ANYTHING is to accept that it’s meant for you and consider it already DONE, then act accordingly.  But what you’re really doing is just HOPING right now. You’re crossing your fingers that you’ll sign that new client, hit that new money goal, go on that vacation, hire that mentor, buy that home. You’re wishing for it. You’re not accepting it as YOURS, right now, even though it may not be physically in your possession just quite yet. You see, everything you’ve received in your life thus far has been received because you accepted it before it was actually given to you. You made up your mind that it was yours and then it appeared. This is great, except that most people do it backwards and end up with a bunch of things they don’t actually want because that’s what they expected. That’s what they told themselves would happen. If you’re constantly in the mindset of “I’m so broke”, you will always be broke. If you’re always saying to yourself “this is too hard, it will never work”, then guess what - it will never work. But on the other hand, if you start saying...
Anything worth having is worth fighting for

Anything worth having is worth fighting for

There have probably been many ups and downs in your life. You’ve probably had shit thrown at you, you’ve fallen on your face, and you’ve FAILED more than once. I’m even willing to bet that you’ve quit and given up on yourself all your life.  You see, when things feel HARD, that’s when you give up. That’s when you quit. That’s when you say you can take no more. And the sad reality is that you’re right. You CAN’T take anymore. Because you’re not cut out for this kind of life. You’re not ever going to achieve what you want.  At least, that’s what you’re telling yourself by quitting.  Listen, if you want something bad enough, you will do whatever it takes to get it. You will fight for it with everything you’ve got.  You’ll take the pain You’ll forfeit the sleep You’ll spend the money You’ll endure the stress You’ll do it all, happily, without complaint –  IF it’s something you deem worth fighting for. Think about this –  What do you really want? Seriously. Think about this. WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU WANT FROM LIFE? How do you want to live? What do you want to do? Who do you want to be? WHAT. DO. YOU. WANT? Get crystal clear on what your dream life actually looks like and hold that vision in your mind while you ask yourself: is this kind of life worth fighting for?  If the answer is no, repeat the process of uncovering your TRUE dream life until you get it right. If the answer is yes, then you know what you have to...

Here’s something NOT to do when you’re trying to sell something

The way people do business these days just astounds me, and not in a good way.  Almost daily I’m receiving messages from people trying to shove their products and services down my throat. People I’ve never spoken to before. I’ve even had people go as far as telling me about them and then they ask about ME, what I do and all that. Why the fuck are you messaging people that YOU DO NOT KNOW and trying to sell them shit? I get that you’re trying to be more visibleI get that you’re just trying to be proactiveI get that you just want to be taking action But this is the WRONG way to go about it. I commend anyone that is taking action in their business. And I do think one of the best ways to grow your business and make more money is to build solid connections with people. There is honestly nothing wrong with reaching out to people just to build a connection. But KNOW who you are reaching out to, or at least know OF them. And please stop trying to sell something or promote yourself in your very first connection with someone. I promise that that strategy always ends badly. You get to decide how you spend your day, how you take action and market your business. And there are many, many ways to do that marketing, make an impact and make MONEY. Ways that are crazy fucking effective if done correctly. Let’s try a fun exercise today –  Pretend you have to come up with $5,000 in the next 72 hours.  Write down a list of...
Want to make $10K in just 30 days (or less)?

Want to make $10K in just 30 days (or less)?

Everyday you have to make a choice about what you’re willing to do. Are you willing to sacrifice sleep to make more money?Are you willing to give up things you want while you hold off for what you REALLY want?Are you willing to do the work, especially the hard work, every day without fail?Are you willing to be you, 100% you, and no one BUT you, all of the time? You get to decide how your life goes and it all comes down to this –  WHAT ARE YOU WILLING TO DO? If there’s one thing that frustrates me more than anything, it’s when someone tells me they want something, but then don’t put in 100% effort to actually get it.  I can promise you this: What you want will not be handed to you, you have to work for it, just like the rest of us. And if it’s important enough –  If you really, really REALLY want it –  Then you have to decide that it’s DONE, and then go out there and get it by showing up daily and doing the work. No excuses, no complaints, no giving up. Just DO.  I remember my first month in coaching when NO ONE was buying. I thought I was doing everything wrong. I felt lost and confused, and to be quite honest with you, I felt like a big time FRAUD. I pretended things were easy for me, I pretended that everything was working out, when in fact, those things couldn’t have been further from the truth. I reallt WANTED things to be easy, but they just weren’t....
EXACTLY what you need to do, RIGHT NOW, to make more money and love your life

EXACTLY what you need to do, RIGHT NOW, to make more money and love your life

I get that it’s easy to play it safe. I get that you maybe don’t WANT to do the work right now, you’re too tired, it’s been a long day, you’re just not INTO IT. But guess what?  No one’s gonna hand you your dream life on a platter and say “enjoy, here’s everything you’ve ever wanted!”.  No. You’ve gotta work for it. But before that, you’ve gotta understand what it is you truly do want.  Get out a pen and paper. Right now, I’ll wait.  Good. Now, start writing –  Your goals for the rest of the month What your dream life looks like, in exact detail How you want to feel every day How you want to look, eat, shop and LIVE What kind of money you want to be making and what it’ll be used for  WHAT.DO.YOU.WANT??? This is no time to be shy. This is no time to be “responsible” or “realistic”. This is where you get those big dreams out of your head and onto paper. Just ADMIT IT already! It’s okay, and it’s damn near your RESPONSIBILITY to get everything you want in life.  Yes, it will be scary. Yes, there will be mistakes made along the way.Yes, you will want to quit more than once.Yes, it’s going to take WORK. You tell me if that’s worth it to have every fucking thing you’ve ever wanted in life. I just now wrote this in my journal –  I make at least $10 million dollars a year.I’m in shit hot shape and love my body.I own and live in my dream home on the water, with...