Alright, here we go. I’m about to get REALLY fucking honest… not that I’m not normally honest, but this time, I’m getting REALLY honest about something I’ve been doing to sabotage myself.
And the reason I’m telling YOU this is so that you don’t do it to yourself.
It’s easy to do.
It’s the safe thing to do.
It’s what many people will TELL you to do.
and it’s also the stupidest thing to do, in my mind.. and I’ve been doing it.
For the last few months, I’ve been focusing on the wrong thing.
I’ve been focused on the money.
Not because I need it, but because I WANT IT. And that, I don’t see a problem with.
It’s okay to want money. It’s okay to want A LOT of money. And it’s even okay to ADMIT you want a lot of money!
The problem is that I was thinking more about the money than the impact I was having. And the impact is a HUGE part of my why. It is really the BIGGEST part of why I show up day after day, night after night, and share myself, my story, my lessons, my findings.. with YOU.
I want to change the world.
I want women everywhere to know they are POWERFUL.
I want to be someone who INSPIRES, not someone who tries to scare you and tell you that life is hard, suck it up, and try to “get through the days”.
I want you to know that, yes, you really can be, do and have EVERYTHING you want. Everything!
And lately, I just don’t feel like I’ve been doing a good job of that because my head has been too focused on the money. The numbers. Trying to smash goal after goal after goal. And as I’m sure you know, this doesn’t work. Because it has to be about MORE than the money.
THAT is what inspires you to continue to show up daily, to share your words, to be of service.
And although I’ve been getting pretty damn close to smashing my goals each month, I haven’t been able to hit them as well as I was before, and I know that’s because I am totally sabotaging myself by being out of alignment.
Because I didn’t create this business to become a millionaire. That was a bonus. I created this business to change lives. THAT is why I show up everyday. To make a difference. To show you that YOU make a difference, too, and that YOU deserve to make money by having an impact with your words and actions.
I want to show you that you can have IT ALL.
I want to show you that you don’t have to be afraid.
I want to show you that everything you’ve ever wanted is right in front of you and all you need to do is reach out and GRAB IT BY THE BALLS.
I know I have helped people. I know I help people every day. But I don’t feel as though I’ve been doing that ENOUGH. I want to do it MORE! On a much, much bigger scale. I want you to have your world absolutely fucking ROCKED.
I’m just a messenger.
I can show you what I’ve done, what I’ve created, what I’ve made in my life…
But what I can’t show you is how to be you.
You just need to be you. Show up, be you, speak your truth, make a difference, make money.
And the more you do it, the more of a difference and the more money you make.
It really is quite simple. And I’m smacking myself for going off the rails for a few months and not being completely in alignment with my overall message and how I run my days.
The thing with having a calling
A message
A WILL to show the world what they’re capable of
A passion for helping and being of service
Is that you never stop caring.
You are always thinking about THEM. Your people. Your community. Your tribe.
How can I help?
What can I share?
What can I say?
I just want to help people. I just want to show you what’s possible for you.
You don’t NEED to struggle. Struggling is a choice. Like it or not, if you’re in a place of struggle right now, that’s your doing. You can blame it on others, on the government, on whatever, but it’s on YOU.
If you don’t wan’t to struggle anymore, make a decision and STOP. Take the actions you need to take to end the struggle and quit playing the victim.
I know what’s possible for you.
I know because I was right where you are right now.
I know because I’ve been through a lot of the same shit you’re likely going through in this very moment.
There IS another way.
You CAN have it all and you DON’T need to wait.
There is a calling.
There is a message.
There is an impact for you to make.
START MAKING IT. Much more than you already are.
So many people need to hear you. So many people NEED you in their lives and you are holding yourself back why? Because you’re scared? Because you don’t know how? Because you feel like a fraud?
After 12+ years creating businesses, here’s one thing I know to be true for sure:
PEOPLE NEED YOU. And when you show up for those people and you give them everything, you truly care about them and you WANT to make a difference in their lives, the money FLOWS in. The struggle ends.
Impact & money go hand in hand. As soon as you start making an impact, you will start making an income. The bigger the impact, the bigger the income.
And that all starts with you showing up, day after day, speaking your truth, sharing your message, and taking consistent action to help others with your words, your content, your programs, and your offerings.
Message > Create > Sell > Impact > Income
It’s not rocket science, but it IS easy to fall off track sometimes, and I’m an example of that!
But, remember this:
If you’re not failing, if you’re not getting stuck, if you’re not falling off the track from time to time? Then you’re not really trying. So pick yourself up and keep moving. Your people need you. YOU need you.