In grade school, I took up smoking to be cool.
In grade school, I took up smoking to be cool. It didn’t work. The cool kids were lame anyways. I flirted with boys I didn’t like because I didn’t want to be called a prude. I hung out with people who were evil fucking humans because they were...
Just let the chaos consume you!
People look at my life and ask “wow, where do you find the time to do all that?” and exclaim that I must be Super Woman because they “could never do that”. They could never work so hard They could never get so much done in one day They could...
Push everything aside and do what needs to be done.
She sheer amount of whining these days is atrocious. The number of people complaining about how hard they’ve got it has seriously frustrated me more than almost anything else. It’s pretty fucking simple, really: Do what needs to be done to get what you...
CREATE MORE. SELL MORE. IMPACT MORE.
One of the most frustrating things about the online coaching world (or any online business world, really, not just coaching), is the amount of people telling you what you SHOULD be doing. And it’s normal to look at those who appear to be mega successful and...
ALLOW THE PLAN TO CHANGE COMPLETELY
I used to think I had it all figured out. That all I needed to succeed in any area of my life was a step-by-step, fail-proof plan, and the will power to follow through. And while the will power is absolutely necessary, I learned that the “plan” most...
What to do when you don’t know what do to
When the light goes out, only you can turn it back on. You can’t wait for someone else to do it for you, or you may be waiting a long freaking time. And the thing is – The light? It will often go out. It will disguise itself as fear, and confusion, and...
Don’t fit the criteria? Expect to be IGNORED.
I get really frustrated with people sometimes. Okay, a lot of the time. Okay, almost daily. Because most people just piss me the hell off. I wish I wasn’t this way… okay, so maybe I don’t… but deep down I believe I shouldn’t be this...
You’re not the only one who thinks the way you do!
You don’t need to stay in hiding anymore. You can come out, and be with the other supposed freaks like us! Believe it or not, there are MANY people who think the way you do, who act the way you do, who believe the way you do – Who are JUST. LIKE. YOU. ...
I know your secret
I know your secret. I know what you’ve been keeping from everyone, likely even from yourself, for weeks now. You’ve been slacking. Again. You just don’t feel like putting in the extra effort if you aren’t getting the results you want. And I...
In the past 2 days, I’ve filled up 24 pages in my journal…
In the past 2 days, I’ve filled up 24 pages in my journal. I’ve said before that journaling is the one thing I do every single day, NO MATTER WHAT. If I’m sick, I journal. If I’m traveling, I journal. If I’m working, I journal. If...
WHY I EMAIL MY LIST EVERY DAY
There has been some talk in my community about how and when you should email your list and because this is something I do differently than a lot of others, I thought I should say something about it, since a lot of people have been asking – “How often...
STOP WAITING, STOP PLAYING SMALL – YOU JUST NEED TO ASK FOR MORE!
You know you can just ask for MORE, right? I mean, really – Whatever you want more of in your life, whether that’s money, success, friendships, time – JUST ASK FOR MORE. One of the most frustrating things for me is when people play small in their...
The real reason you can’t seem to make more money
Let me guess – You’re behind on your money goals for the month again, right? Why does this keep happening? Why do you keep setting goals but never hitting them? I’ll tell you why – Because you don’t actually WANT to hit them. Yep....
Ruthlessly eliminate the toxins from your life
Think about a cloudy, overcast, cold & wet day. Think about how GREY it is. Think about how DEPRESSING it is. That’s what your life will be like if you allow the toxins in your life to stay there – The toxic people The toxic thoughts The toxic...
What THEY won’t tell you about having it all –
You can sit around and complain that things aren’t going your way – Or you can do something about it. Instead of wallowing around in your own self-pity, you need to DO THE WORK. All of the work Not some of the work Not just the work you “feel...
Step up, own what you want, and do what you need to do NOW!
There is something that you really need to hear right now: You are enough. You are enough. You are enough. Stop trying to be perfect. Stop trying to get it all “right”. Stop trying to do everything in the “right order”, whatever that means....