One of the affirmations I’ve been repeatedly writing in my journal for years now is “everything happens FOR me, not TO me“. It’s changed the way I think. It’s changed the way I act. It’s changed the way I live. And ultimately,...
One thing that irritates me to no end is excuses. It doesn’t matter who’s giving them. When I hear an excuse, it makes me cringe and it requires a fuck-ton of strength to not lay into the person spitting it out. Just this morning I’ve overheard half...
I used to feel ashamed if I felt bad about something. If I felt fear or sadness or guilt or jealousy.. I would then feel ashamed for feeling that way. Because those were “bad” feelings and bad feelings weren’t allowed. I don’t know why I ever...
Whew, what a weekend! Even though the snow/rain/ice/whateverthefuck tried to kill us, we survived. Even though we had to deal with lots of scraping and shoveling and multiple power outages, I am grateful. Grateful for the time spent with my incredible clients....
In June 2016 I hosted my first ever in-person event with my badass friend, Courtney Davis. I remember hiding in the bathroom more than once so I could puke in private and calm myself down. I was terrified. Scared I would do it all wrong. Worried people wouldn’t...
I’m sick of being told I need to slow down, that I’m too aggressive, to stop working so much. I refuse to quit doing something I am passionate about. I refuse to quit. I refuse to STOP. Don’t you hate it when people try and tell you what THEY think...
This morning was one of those mornings where I felt like I was alone. I didn’t want to do anything. I didn’t want to talk to anyone. I didn’t want to be anywhere. I was just alone. After I dropped the kids off from school, I sat there in my truck...
Sometimes I sit here and ask myself “what do I say?” and end up getting the same answers pretty much EVERY.SINGLE.TIME. Talk about this! And this! And this! And this! But I already DID! Yesterday! And the day before that, and that, and that. I worry that...
As I reflect back over the past year, it’s clear to me that the times I made the most money were the times I was having the most fun. Like that trip I took to Banff in February with my family. Where I saw the most incredible fucking mountains I’ve ever...
Remember when you said you’d do anything to live the life of your dreams? Remember when you were so CERTAIN of what you were about to do? Remember when you ignored all the naysayers and did your own thing anyway? What happened to that person? Where’s the...