You don’t need to stay in hiding anymore.
You can come out, and be with the other supposed freaks like us!
Believe it or not, there are MANY people who think the way you do, who act the way you do, who believe the way you do –
Who are JUST. LIKE. YOU.
We love to get up and hustle every single day of the week. We’re married to the grind and we fucking ENJOY IT. In fact, the thought of NOT grinding it out each day makes us want to puke! We do the work, all of the work, and then some, every single day, because why? Because we can’t NOT do it. Try to take away our hustle and you pretty much are killing us dead.
We don’t understand what the fuck people who aren’t like us actually DO with their lives. How can you NOT want to share your message and get paid to be you?? We really just don’t GET most people and the way they think and behave. We sometimes feel like we’re the only ones who feel the way we feel, but we’re not. There are other freaks just like us out there!
Do you love what you do?
I mean, really, TRULY love what you do?
Then for fuck’s sake, why aren’t you doing MORE of it? Why aren’t you making the most of every single second in your day? Why are you allowing fear and resistance to take over? That’s what the weak people do. That’s what the wannabe’s do. That’s not what WE DO.
You see, it’s like there’s 2 different clubs:
There’s a club for those who are “simple”; who want to have a really laid-back, low-key life.
And then there’s a club for us: Those who want to hustle from morning to night, all day long. Who want to create more, be more, do more, HAVE more, and who want to do it with passion and with a purpose. Because we don’t just do this to cross to-dos off a damn list. We do this, we live this way, because we don’t SEE any other way to live.
We’re confused by people who want to relax.
How boring.
We’re confused by people who want to take time away from their business.
What in the actual FUCK? Seriously?!?!
We’re confused by people who don’t actually want to constantly be showing up, creating, speaking and living in such an extreme way.
Makes no damn sense to us freaks.
And sometimes it really does feel like we’re the only people who feel the way we do. I know sometimes I will think something (like this morning when I asked myself “how much can I get done before the kids get up and start demanding things from me?”) and automatically tell myself I’m wrong. Like, Cassie, you shoudn’t be so focused on work. You shouldn’t be so laser-focused in one area of your life that you forget about and ignore the other areas!
But that’s just it –
And this is something most people don’t realize about us, –
One area for us, is the WHOLE area. Nothing is separate. Our business is our life and our life is our business.
What we eat for lunch is business
When we take our kids to school, that’s business
When we’re playing Princesses with our 4 year old, that’s business
When we’re shopping, that’s business
When we’re answering emails, that’s business
When we’re journaling, that’s business
When we’re on a date with our spouse, that’s business
When we’re taking the dog for a walk, that’s business
When we’re listening to a podcast, that’s business
EVERYTHING IS BUSINESS BECAUSE *LIFE* IS BUSINESS!
Don’t you see?
Don’t you UNDERSTAND what’s happening here?
You are not fully embracing the fact that you can get paid to be YOU. That all you need to do is get clear on THAT, on what you stand for, on what you want to really share with the world, and then go out there and DO IT.
What you’re doing right now –
The hiding
The pretending
The ignoring your gut feelings?
It’s holding you back from doing what you came here to do. Which is share your message, have an impact, change lives, and make money doing what you love!
You’re not the only one who thinks the way you do, you’re not the only one who feels the way you do, you’re not the only one who wants the same things as you do. You’re not alone here. There are plenty of people just like you, just like me, and just like the other true hustlers that want it all and ARE gonna get it - so long as they commit and take action.
I used to think I was alone and that there was something wrong with me when I didn’t want to do the things most others wanted to do –
Go to the movies
Walk around the mall for hours
Work somewhere just to pay the bills, not because I enjoyed the work
Watch a lot of TV
Spend hours lounging around a pool or the beach
Sit around relaxing (or in my mind: “be a lazy fuck”)
It was all just so BORING.
I wanted to do things
I wanted to create things
I wanted to say things
I wanted to share things
But since no one around me was doing this, everyone just kept their heads down and their mouths shut, I did the same. Because I thought that’s what was normal –
Which I eventually came to realize WAS normal! And what I also came to realize is that I was NOT. Normal, that is. 🙂
I don’t enjoy the things normal people enjoy. In fact, I think normal people are the real freaks! They remind me of the Stepford Wives, just going through the daily motions, over and over and over again, but never really getting ahead.
Fuck that.
We don’t have time for that shit. We’re building empires here!
There is a lot of responsibility that comes along with building an empire. I know it can seem scary and overwhelming sometimes. I know that most days you probably feel like you don’t know what the fuck you’re even doing. But because you are ONE OF US, you keep moving forward. You keep doing the work every day that you feel is right.
You keep speaking your mind
You keep sharing your truth
You keep showing up as you
You keep creating and delivering
You keep on keeping on
And so you then get to see the results that most others won’t, you get a TASTE of the success you crave, but you’re always just a bit behind where you want to be. You’re SO CLOSE you can almost touch it, but it seems like every month, you just can’t crack the code and hit that target you’ve been shooting for.
I know that when I was trying to make $10K months my new normal, I was so frustrated when the end of the month came around and I had only brought in half that amount. And then again when I was shooting for $30K months and could never seem to get past the $20K mark. It happens every time I uplevel and set bigger goals, and it CONTINUES to happen until I realize I’m doing IT again –
I’m not fully commiting. I’m not trusting. And I’m trying to do it all on my own.
I’m a big believer in private 1:1 mentorship. I know that whenever I’m working privately with a coach, my business explodes, the clients seem to come to me so much easier than when I was doing it all alone, my income ALWAYS increases (seriously - EVERY time), and I feel more confident in running my business, because I have someone there, supporting me and holding me accountable.
But once the big results come in, I start to get arrogant again and think I don’t need a coach anymore.
“I can do it myself!”, is the thought that’s always running through my mind. I’m such a damn control freak.
But every time I do this, my income actually goes down, I lack confidence, I get those feelings of fear and uncertainty, and I freak myself the fuck out.
You do the same, right? The good news is that you can change this behaviour and continue to get incredible results.
I know that once I realize I’m participating in such self-sabbotaging behaviour, I first give myself crap for “doing it again”, and then I do what I know I need to do: I fully commit. I trust in myself. And I get the 1:1 support that I need.
And it changes my vibe, puts me in SUCH a high-vibe positive state, that the results start coming almost instantly. I love it!
So, what you need to know is this –
#1. There are people who think, feel, and act the same way you do. Seek these people out (hi, I’m right here!), connect with them, and don’t ever let them go.
#2. Stop thinking you can do everything on your own and still be happy and successful. Those bullshit lies of “I’ll wait until I get my next client” or “I need to finish completing all the other shit I bought first and THEN I’ll get support” or “I just finished working with a coach, I can do it on my own now”. This is a fantastic way to leave money on the table, feel overwhelmed and want to shoot yourself in the face every day of the week.
#3. Fully commit to what you want and go all the way in on your dreams. Not halfway in. Not even 99% of the way in. You must go ALL the way in if you want to succeed. No excuses.
Us hustlers
Us believers
Us leaders
Us badass rockstars
We ARE the elite. We came here to change the world, and we ARE doing it!
Don’t forget –
You really can be, do and have EVERYTHING you want. Take action now!