I think it’s pretty obvious that you’re making things way harder than they have to be. You know that, right?
Things probably FEEL tough right now
You probably FEEL like it’s so hard
It’s also probably true that you FEEL scared
Or overwhelmed
Or unsure
Or confused
Or annoyed
Or frustrated
Or…
OR!
How about this instead –
How about you just choose to not be any of those things or feel any of those feelings?
What if you just decided it was gonna be EASY instead?
What if you made a conscious decision that from here on out, whatever you choose to do –
It’s going to be SO freakin’ EASY?
Would that make you feel better? Do you think that would make you more productive? Do you think you’d get more done if the work felt easy? Do you think you’d make more money if making money felt easy?
Have you ever wondered –
“How does she/he do it? They make it seem so easy!”
Probably once or twice, right? 😉
Well, have you ever considered that maybe they make it seem so easy because it IS actually easy for them? And if it’s easy for them, it can be easy for you, too!
I think the most frustrating I see and hear every day is THE STRUGGLE.
“It’s too hard”
“It’s not working”
“It’s taking too long”
I read posts, I read emails, I have private conversations –
All which often include me being asked “how do you do it all?” or “how is it so easy for you?” –
To which my answer is always:
“It’s easy for me because I made a decision that it would be easy for me. I do it all by getting my prioroties straight and I stopped fucking around on useless tasks that were taking up time, but not producing results.”
I think it’s important to experiment. With your sales processes, with your offers, with your content, with your pricing, with almost everything –
But I also 100% believe it’s even more important to just make a commitment and then DECIDE it’s a done deal.
It’s easy for me to make money every day.
It’s easy for me to show up daily and get the work done.
It’s easy for me to sell all day, every day.
It’s easy for me to get paid to be me.
It’s easy for me to spend time with my kids every day.
It’s easy to generate over $100K/month in cash from flow.
It’s easy for me to take care of my body.
It’s easy for me to lose weight.
It’s easy for me to treat myself often.
It’s easy for me to sign on high-end clients.
IT’S EASY IT’S EASY IT’S EASY.
Do I have a special strategy or skill-set that makes this true? Nope. I just DECIDED that it would be easy, and so it is.
It’s confusing at first. It’s messy at first. It’s annoying at first, even. Because it doesn’t work at first, usually, as deep down, you don’t really believe it’s possible to just believe and then it’s done.
I was having this conversation with one of my kick-ass clients recently.
She wanted to make a decision of something being a DONE FUCKING DEAL, but she couldn’t because deep down, she just didn’t believe it was possible. Which is common. Happens to me occasionally, too. 🙂
But if that happens to you, here’s what you do, and this is what I told my client –
You need to PROVE to yourself that what you want can, in fact, happen for you.
Let’s say you have a money goal of $10K a month. You can’t even fathom receiving that much money every month. You’re barely making $100 a month right now! $10K seems so far away.
Instead of dismissing the goal altogether (it’s too big!), or worse yet, deciding you will instead shoot for a smaller, $5K goal, because that’s more “reasonable” (since when have you been a REASONABLE person, anyway?!).
But what happens then? You still don’t hit the goal! Why? Because the goal is not aligned. You actually WANTED the $10K. You have a reason for that amount. The money has a purpose.
So shooting for something smaller, or dismissing the idea of $10K altogether, isn’t in alignment and your soul screams NO!
Therefore, no goal hit.
Typical.
What you want to do instead is prove to yourself that $10K/month is EASY. How?
First: Break it down into a weekly and then daily goal. Your brain accepts smaller numbers easier and faster.
Second: Invite the money to come in. Call it in through your daily journaling. “I received $500 cash today. Thank you!”
Third: Watch for the proof. Set a goal for $5 today. Call it in. Visualize it happening. Take the aligned actions you feel called to take today.
When the money comes in, celebrate. Then, set a $10 goal for tomorrow.
The more you set a goal and see it manifest in front of you, even if it’s a seemingly small goal, it will give you the proof that your brain needs to say “hey, I guess I really can call in what I want”, and you’ll be able to set (and achieve) even bigger goals!
Remember –
Ease and flow comes when you decide you’re ready for it.
Making money FAST happens when you decide it’s time.
Working with soulmate clients only will be your reality when you decide you’ll accept nothing less.
Just make a DECISION. Stick to it. COMMIT to it. And make it your reality. 🙂