Let’s talk about fear.
That gremlin in your head that tells you why you shouldn’t do something.
“Don’t buy that thing, you might regret it!”
“Don’t talk to that person, they might do something to harm you!”
“Don’t agree to that thing, it might not end up the way you want it to end up!”
“Don’t invest in that person, they might rip you off!”
“Don’t share that opinion, people might disagree and make you look stupid for sharing it!”
And so you continually don’t do the scary thing because OMG WHAT IF?!
Aren’t you tired of being a slave to the fear? Are you sure you really want to live that way? Where your every thought, desire, and belief are always pushed aside so fear can take their place?
Aren’t you feeling sick of being in the same damn place that you’ve been at for the past year, 2 years or more - constantly craving more, but never experiencing it because your fear is holding you back?
If you think about it –
You staying STUCK has really been making you feel down. You go to bed with that feeling in your heart that, yet again, you didn’t show the fuck up all the way, you played it safe, you AGAIN didn’t take the leap, and so..
You’re. Still. STUCK.
And this goes on for weeks, months, even YEARS, where you desperately WANT more, but you just can’t seem to get there –
You always feel like crap. You’re tired as hell. You’re incredibly frustrated. And you keep SAYING you’re done, you keep SAYING this is “your time”.
But it just..
Never is.
Never happens. Not the way you want it to, anyway.
That’s for the simple reason that life is happening the way you’re allowing it to happen. You’re living a mediocre life, well below where you know you SHOULD be, and of course - it’s a GREAT life - you’re definitely not being ungrateful, but…
You want more.
You know you were meant for more.
You know that this - where you’re at right now - is simply not where you’re meant to be. It was fun, but that next level? That’s where you REALLY desire to be.
And that’s gonna take some guts.
Getting THERE is gonna require you to leave the HERE AND NOW. That means that the things you’re doing now are gonna have to evolve. The decisions you’re making will need to be elevated.
You need to be willing to leave the old you behind, so you can grow into the next level you.
Which will require you to do the scary thing. The MANY scary things. Over and over and over again. Until you get to the point where the fear no longer even phases you. 🙂
Until you decide to let go of the life you’re currently clinging to, so you can move up to the level you WANT to be playing at, you will continue to stay stuck exactly where you are.
What is the “scary thing”?
It could be eliminating people from your life who aren’t supportive.
It could be making a big investment.
It could be having a hard conversation with someone.
It could be hiring someone to support you in your biz.
It could be stopping doing things that you were told you HAD to do to succeed, that really aren’t in alignment for you.
But mostly, it’s gonna be about bidding farewell to the “old you”, so you can invite in the “new you”.
What would the NEW YOU say to spending time with people who aren’t supporting you?
What would the NEW YOU say about investing in yourself?
What would the NEW YOU say about doing that thing you REALLY don’t feel good doing?
NEW you? NEXT LEVEL you? She knows what to do. What to say. What decision to make.
Listen in.
What is she saying now?
Don’t forget –
You really can be, do and have EVERYTHING you want. Say YES to you and take action now!
xx,
Cassie