by Cassie Howard | Mar 17, 2017 | Work At Home Mom |
Instead of worrying about exactly what to say and how to say it, how about you just say something? Anything. Just let the words out! Because there ARE words inside of you. The problem is – You refuse to let them out unless they’re polished, and sound just right, “make sense” and paint you as someone who’s perfect. Except here’s what’s really important to understand: PEOPLE DON’T LIKE PERFECT! Perfection will often intimidate people and it will be hard for you to build a strong connection and relationship with them. And as I’m sure you know: relationships are everything when building a business (well, in LIFE, in general!). This is the reason most people are “star struck” when meeting a celebrity, and why they often can’t hold a decent conversation with them. They’re overwhelmed. They feel inferior. And so they mumble, they say stupid shit, or sometimes they can’t say anything at all! These celebrities are put on a pedestal and, in your mind, are someone you could never be. And it makes you feel like shit, right? It’s not “inspiring” It’s not empowering You just feel “less than”. Like you’re not as good as they are. Like you could NEVER be as good as they are. That’s how your community feels when you pretend to be perfect for them. It’s probably not even intentional on your part, but by obsessively checking for any little spelling or grammatical error on your latest email – Or always making sure your make-up is flawless – Or insisting that you MUST have great lighting in your photos – Well, then you’re setting...
