by Cassie Howard | Mar 5, 2017 | Work At Home Mom |
Every day I hear someone complaining about SOMETHING. This day is shit My life is shit The world has gon to shit! And OMG why can’t I just have what I want and be happy? Well, I’ll tell you why – Because you aren’t sending out the right vibes. 🙂 So what you’re having a bad day? We all have bad days. That doesn’t mean we need to let them ruin us. One bad day can lead to 100 bad days can lead to 1,000 bad days in a ROW – If you let those thoughts win. Don’t ever forget that you’re the only person who gets to decide how your life is going to go. You can choose to be all “woe is me” and “my life sucks” OR – You can be “I am the fucking shit and only amazing things happen for me!“. I’d tell you which one I choose daily, but I think it’s quite obvious, right? That being said – Yes, you are going to have bad days every once in awhile. That’s called being human. You can’t escape this. But you absolutely CAN limit the number of bad days that you have. You can simply brainwash yourself into believing that you will NEVER again have a bad day, and just by doing this one simple thing, you will severely limit the number of bad days you have. Sounds pretty good, right? Here are a few more ideas, for those times when the brainwashing just ain’t happening – 6 WAYS TO AVOID HAVING A BAD DAY Like I said, you can’t eliminate bad days...
by Cassie Howard | Mar 4, 2017 | Planning |
I’m about to get real honest with you here, okay? Whatever is happening or not happening in your life right now is because of YOU. You are the one who creates your reality and it can be full of abundance or full of lack. Your thoughts create your reality. Your feelings create your reality. Your actions create your reality. THOUGHTS > FEELINGS > ACTIONS > REALITY You can’t have negative thoughts AND a positive life. It’s just not possible. Let me break it down for you real quick – If you don’t have what you want it’s because you’ve been focused on the LACK of it in your life (thoughts), which makes you feel mad/sad/frustrated (feelings), and in turn convinces you not to bother trying, or trying hard enough (actions), which landed you right where you are not, WITHOUT having what you want (reality). You can’t blame other people that you don’t have what you want. You can’t blame your circumstances that you don’t have what you want. But do you want to know who you CAN blame? YOURSELF. Can I tell you something that just may change your life? If you’re in any way thinking that you have to “work your way up” to where you want to be – Or you have to do X and Y before you’re allowed to have Z – Or that you need to follow some kind of PLAN to have what you want – Well… You’re wrong. 🙂 Success Money Influence Fame Impact In comes from believing and taking risks & big actions. It comes from the way you think and...
by Cassie Howard | Mar 3, 2017 | Business Basics |
I remember when I first started coaching. I would work with just about anybody. It wasn’t only about the money, I really did believe I could help them, too, but money definitely played a part in my decision-making (something I deeply regret). But the sad thing is that I couldn’t help them. Because they weren’t my soulmate clients. They weren’t JUST LIKE ME. They weren’t committed. You see, here’s one VERY big lesson I learned early on: You need to say NO to more people that you say YES to, when it comes to 1:1 clients. And more importantly than that, you need to only say yes to those that are SOULMATE CLIENTS – Meaning: Your clients are JUST LIKE YOU in every way, you’re just ahead of them on the ladder and they want to be where you are. I worked with a bunch of clients who, in the end, I just couldn’t help, because they didn’t have the qualities I believe are necessary to succeed in business: Focus, Determination, Stamina, Clarity, and fucking HUSTLE. Which was MY fault for accepting them as clients. I take full responsibility for that. I ended up “firing” most of these clients, because I just couldn’t stand working with them for a second longer. They were NOT willing to do what it took to get the results they wanted, and it drove me insane. It was starting to rub off on me. And that’s NOT something I’m willing to let happen. I’ve worked too damn hard to get where I am, both with my mindset and my physical hustle. There’s no way in...
by Cassie Howard | Mar 2, 2017 | Business Niche |
Can you honestly say that you LOVE what you do? Do you really believe that you’re doing the work you were born to do? Deep down, do you feel like you are living your ideal life? I hope you answered YES to at least one of those questions. And if you didn’t, I hope you are on the path of getting to YES. Because nothing is more important than finding what you love, doing that, turning it into a lifestyle where you get paid to be you. It has to mean something. If you’re gonna take action, what does that action MEAN? How does it make you feel? What is the underlying purpose of the action? And of course, why is taking it so important to you? Everything you do in life means something. Every action you take serves a purpose. You may exercise because it makes you leaner and healthier. You may take the trash out because then your house won’t smell. You may write about sex because it makes your heart sing to do so. You may work privately with your clients because you know you’re helping them change their lives. You may eat vegetables, because you know they’ll make you “big and strong”, as Mom used to say. The action you take has a purpose that means something to you. What is it for your business? What is that meaning? That purpose? Where does the DRIVE come from? Find it, hold on to it, remember it. Because that’s the only thing that will get you through the ups and downs of this crazy entrepreneurial world that...
by Cassie Howard | Mar 1, 2017 | Business Basics |
There tend to be 2 camps of people – 1. The camp that tells you to WORK HARD! 2. And the camp that tells you to WORK SMART, NOT HARD! But my questions is… Why can’t it be both? I mean, they both have their benefits, don’t you think? Let’s explore and then you can tell me what you believe. BENEFITS OF WORKING HARD: Hard work gets noticed, bringing you more attention. Hard work builds character. You learn DISCIPLINE, which is one huge key to success. Hard works gives you an advantage. People can be smarter than you, but they can’t outwork you if you’re hustling hard all the time. Hard work gives you confidence. You KNOW you’re good at what you do. Hard work makes it easier for you to express gratitude because you know what it’s like to struggle and then succeed. Hard work forces you to improve yourself and your skill set, which leads to more success. BENEFITS OF WORKING SMART: Smart work typically allows you to earn more money. (If you are SMART about it!) Smart work teaches you how to delegate more and create a team that help you to grow quickly. Smart work allows you to work less and to drop altogether the tasks you hate doing, but need to be done. Smart work gives you more freedom to spend your time the way you want. Smart work forces you to prioritize the important, revenue-generating tasks over the other “fluff”. Smart work has you getting way more done in much less time. This all sounds well and good, but there’s one thing that...
