For those days when you just don’t give a fuck

For those days when you just don’t give a fuck

You know, there are days that I really, TRULY, just don’t give a fuck.

Don’t care what people think.
Don’t care what people say.
Don’t care what people do.

Just give a shit about ME. I’m selfish. I think of ME. Always. But I also think of YOU and what YOU need to hear, which is, I believe, this – 

It’s okay to not give a fuck sometimes!

In fact, I’m willing to stand up and say it’s NECESSARY and even - GASP - normal! 

You were not born to care what others think of you, so why DO you? Are they paying your bills? Are they facilitating YOUR dream life? Are you their freaking PUPPET?

Grow a pair of brass ovaries and GET ON WITH YOUR BADASS SELF.

Allow yourself to say what you want, do what you want, and simply – 

Be who you ARE. 

Fuck anyone who disagrees! Who tries to sell you another way. Who even attempts to convince you that your opinion is WRONG. How dare they! 

But you know better.
You’re aware of who you are and you’re cool with that.
You know you’re a bit “over the top” for most.
You know you have a strong opinion that many don’t agree with.

And while you’re okay with it, it can sometimes feel lonely, can’t it?

Feeling like you’re the ONLY one who thinks how you think
Who does what you do and WANTS to do what you want to do
Who simply can’t understand how you got thrown into a land of SHEEP

A bunch of FOLLOWERS

A bunch of WANNABES

A bunch of COWARDS!

How? How did you end up here when you’re clearly SO different from almost everyone around you?

It’s a mystery, and one I still haven’t figured out myself. But you know what? I don’t give a fuck. Because I know I’m the shit. Just as much as you know that YOU are the shit. 

And let me just tell you – 

There ARE people like you. They are SO much like you, in fact, that they pretty much ARE you! You have the same thoughts, the same beliefs, the same big goals and dreams. You think the same, you act the same, you ARE the same fucking person. 

You are so not alone. 

I know what it feels like to think that you’re the only person who thinks the way you do. And your mind is absolutely BLOWN at what you see and hear from people around you on a regular basis. How can they possibly THINK like that? SPEAK like that? ACT like that? How can they NOT understand what you know and understand yourself? 

And that’s why you’re here. That’s why you were put on this earth. You were born to make a difference! To show the followers, the wannabes, the sheep – 

Exactly what they can be, do and have! And I’m telling you right now – 

They NEED YOU. They’re waiting for someone like you in their life to shake some sense into them! There ARE people who think just like you do – 

But sometimes
They need help
Getting out of their shell
And accepting that the feelings they have are REAL
And that they’re okay

That’s where YOU come in. You need to be willing to show up for them. You need to be THERE, always, any time - to prove that they are worthy. To show them the way to having what they want. 

You need to be present
You need to be consistent
And you need to be willing

To be the changemaker. To be the person who says FUCK IT ALL, I’M GOING ALL IN – 

And then doing just that. For them, AND for you. 

Can I share something personal with you?

I used to think I was the only person who had the same brain as I do. 
I used to believe that I was the only person on earth who loved their work more than almost anything. 
I used to believe that I was the only person who was fixated on becoming extremely wealthy.

I used to believe it was BAD for me to want money, to want to work all the time, to want – 

Well, ANYTHING other than what was the basics, really. 

And I thought I was the only person who believed these things.

Turns out I was wrong, because here you are! Not to mention the countless women in my community that have stepped up and claimed ownership of who they are and what they want out of life – 

Which is pretty much the same stuff that I myself want out of life.

But I would’t know that there were other people just like me, had I not made the decision, and taken the actions, to put my TRUE self out there. No filtering, no pretending to be someone I thought I HAD to be, no faking it – 

Just showing up as me. 
Saying what I want.
Not caring what anyone thinks.
Doing what I want to do. 
Speaking my mind! 

And yeah, I lost some followers. But they were just that – 

FOLLOWERS. 

They were never doing to be people I could actually help, anyway. Not if they didn’t like who I am as a person. 

But while I lost followers, I gained raving fans that love EVERYTHING I put out there! Even the controversial Donald Trump stuff. The religious stuff. The veganism stuff. 

These are my TRUE tribe people. My REAL community. The ACTUAL people I really WANT to help and to connect with! And the only reason I discovered them and they discovered me, is because I showed up, and CONTINUE to show up, as my 100% AUTHENTIC self. All day, every day, no matter what. 

You can have the same. You can be surrounded by the PERFECT, most IDEAL people in your community. People that love you for YOU, believe the same things you do, trust you completely, buy from you on repeat, and are FUN freaking people to spend your time with! 

Now tell me – 

What could be better than that? 🙂

Don’t forget – 

You really can be, do and have EVERYTHING you want. Take action now!