There is nothing that you can’t have or experience. You can choose to live a life you love.
You CAN have and experience whatever it is that you desire. And you can have it now; you don’t have to wait for things to “fall into place” or for it to be the “right” time.
Those are restrictions and limitations that you put on yourself, and it’s likely why you still don’t have the things you want.
You continue to stay stuck because your mind tells you that it’s part of the process. You have to wait your turn. You have to “do the work” first. You have to earn your winnings. You have to _________ –
It’s all total BS. You don’t have to do a damn thing except for this:
ASK for what you want.
DECLARE it as being a done deal, no questions asked.
ACT on that declaration daily until what you want is yours.
For some, this may take years, depending on the desire. For others, they may get what they want later THAT DAY. When it happens is irrelevant.
What matters is knowing that it WILL. Knowing that it’s meant for you. Believing that it’s safe for you to have what you want and that you’re worthy of having it.
And that’s where the crucial mindset work comes into play.
YES you’ve gotta do the WORK, too.
YES, you’ve gotta write emails & posts for social media.
YES, you’ve gotta track your money and income goals.
YES, you’ve gotta engage with your community.
YES, you’ve gotta promote your latest offering.
YES, you’ve gotta follow-up with potential clients.
YES, you’ve gotta sell consistently.
YES, you’ve gotta create new offerings, free and paid.
YES, you’ve got a lot of shit to get done every day.
I get it. And I respect your hustle. But what if you did all of that work and STILL didn’t get the results you so desperately wanted? What then? Do you quit? Walk away? Deem yourself “not good enough” or unworthy?
Because that’s what most people do.
They do the WORK.
They get the job DONE.
They sell and create and market and go ALL in.
But they forgot one important piece of the Success Puzzle: Mindset work.
Yes, it’s one more thing you need to “do” every day, but know this: It’s THE most important to-do on your list. If you skip mindset work, you’re leaving a LOT of money on the table, and you’re doing yourself a disservice, to be quite honest.
Mindset work - in this case, JOURNALING, is the difference between successful people and unsuccessful people. Those who are massively successful have one big thing in common:
They have an incredible mind that they continue to strengthen daily. They THINK as winners and so they BECOME winners.
When you think about your strongest desire, let’s say it’s your dream home.. when you think about that home, and you see it in your mind, what’s the first thought that comes to you after you see it? For most people, it’s one of the following:
“Yeah right”
“I wish”
“One day…” (but never “now”)
There are instant doubts, right? And that, right there, is the problem. Your mind doesn’t know how to expand into something greater than itself. Something other than what it already is.
Your mind needs to evolve into one of ABUNDANCE, instead of one of LACK.
I remember a specific time when I did this. I had wanted a Cadillac Escalade for almost 10 years.
I would stare at them with love in my eyes any time I saw one, and I would say “One day I will have one of those”, but then people would remind me how much they cost and I would sulk and say “I wish”.
I truly believed that even though I wanted one so badly, I could never afford one, and so I would never have one.
It wasn’t until a mentor of mine told me to start affirming that I already had one. “Just write it down every day as if it’s already yours”, which seemed like the stupidest advice I’d ever received.
Write down that I have something even though I don’t? But okay, I paid you lots of money, so maybe you know what you’re talking about… 🙂
And do you want to know the really exciting thing that happened next?
I drove that Cadillac off the lot and into my driveway. It was MINE. Paid in full, over $60,000, in just a few MONTHS. I didn’t have to wait long at all.
Of course, I had doubts with the mindset work. I didn’t believe that it was going to work for me when everything I’d done up until that point (for 10 freakin’ YEARS!) didn’t help me at all, but I knew that at some point, I had to trust someone or something, and so I made that choice:
Even though I don’t know exactly how, I believe that this will work for me.
And then, it became my reality.
You may have already experienced abundance in some areas of your life, but not others.
Take money as an example. Are you making the amount of money that you want to be making and are you making it consistently?
If not, then it’s time to retrain your brain, because right now it can only fathom $xxxx (whatever you’re currently making). You need to get it to fathom $xxxx (whatever your goal income is).
And that comes through daily mindset strengthening.
Daily mindset work that moves you from stuck and surviving to SUCCESS in a massive way.
How would it feel to know that the money you want to make is not only possible for you, but it’s possible now? How would your life be different if you started to receive that money? What would change? What would you do?
Those are the thoughts you need to be thinking, because those are the thoughts that create success.