by Cassie Howard | Aug 13, 2016 | Business Basics |
WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU ACTUALLY WANT FROM LIFE ANYWAY? I think the biggest thing that fucks with the heads of so many people is what the hell they actually want out of life. You think you know, but do you REALLY know what would actually make you happy? I want you to do a quick exercise for me right now. Go grab a pen and paper. Write down everything you want to be, do and have in your life. Think as if there is no chance of failure. If a magic genie said he was going to grant all of your wishes right now, if you just simply tell himexactly what you want - anything and everything. Here’s mine – I would travel the world in my private jet multiple times a year with my family, friends and my team, simply exploring, and also to share my message with as many people as possible I would give speeches to huge audiences that pay thousands to come and hear me speak I would live near water and wake up seeing water from my bedroom window (and all around my home, really) I would be a big name in the animal rights community, volunteering both time and money to improve the lives of animals everywhere I would have a family that supported me, trusted me, pushed me and fought for me, without questioning my sanity (they should know I’m not at all sane by this point!) I would only spend time doing exactly what I loved doing and nothing more I would look, live and feel like the multi-millionaire I know...
by Cassie Howard | Aug 12, 2016 | Visibility |
You know your stuff is good. You know you provice exceptional value.You know your people need you. But you can’t seem to get people to listen to you when you speak. You’re lacking in likes, in comments, in shares, in messages, in emails, in tweets, in… well, you get the idea. You’re invisible and here’s why – 1. You’re inconsistentWant to know a good way to get people to ignore you? Show up only periodcially. Better yet, don’t show up at all! If you want people to remember you, follow you, like you, BUY from you, then you need to show up and be in their face ALL.THE.TIME. I’m talking day in and day out, without fail, no excuses. 2. All you do is sellPeople want to know that you have something of value to give them, and you’re not gonna get that across just by simply yelling BUY MY STUFF at the top of your lungs. I’m sure your paid stuff is great, but no one is going to know that unless you give them a taste. Remember this: every time you sell, give valuable, FREE content first! This is one of the best ways to land the sale (plus, you won’t ever feel “salesy” again! 3. You’re not an expertHave you PROVEN to people that you’re a pro at what you do? If you’re feeling invisible, then no, you likely haven’t. The best way to show others that you’re the best is to simply BE the best. Constantly be LEARNING and implementing. Every day be sharing these things and putting them into practice. Share your results and teach others. ...
by Cassie Howard | Aug 11, 2016 | Making Money |
I know many people that are always complaining. Always fearing the worst. Always turning on their negativity switch. Worrying about tomorrowWorrying about todayWorrying about next week and next month and next year Saying how rich people are greedy. Saying how getting rich yourself is a dream. A fantasy in your mind you can never achieve. It’s these same people that never get rich or accomplish much of anything in their lives. Why? Because they’re natural lazy fucks. Negative. Uninspired. And vocal about how everyone who actually HAS succeeded must have connections or have done something shady to get where they are. What I’ve learned from these people (other than the fact that I never want to be them), is that I don’t have to believe what other people tell me. I must believe myself. Belive IN myself. Believe FOR myself. Because my dreams are scary big. I’m sure yours are too, or you wouldn’t be here. Right now you may be terrified of failingRight now you may be feeling exhaustedRight now you may be overwhelmed and confusedRight now you may be wondering if this is actually worth it And let me tell you, it SO is. Because the world needs you and your message. And therefore, it’s your responsibility, your DUTY, to show up and share yourself and your message every day. You say you want those $10K months, the six-figure business. You say you want the freedom. You say you want the ability to live life on your terms. So WHY then, haven’t you made it happen yet? What’s stopping you from getting where you want to go?...
by Cassie Howard | Aug 9, 2016 | Making Money |
Something that blows my mind is how fucking ENTITLED people are. They expect everything to be given to them for free, handed to them on a silver platter, with no effort on their part. They believe that they can have what they want in life without working hard for it. Let me tell you something – There isn’t a single wealthy person in the world that didn’t work HARD for their money. Not a single one. Even those that were born into money, or received an inheritance.. if they KEPT the money, they worked HARD to keep it. I don’t mean that hard = difficult. Making money is not difficult (in fact, it’s really fucking EASY). What I mean by working hard is that they put in the work necessary to get what they want. They work their asses off day in and day out, never take days off, bring work with them on vacations, and rarely sleep much. Now, that may not seem fun at all. Maybe you’re thinking “Cassie, I don’t want to be rich if it means I’m constantly working”, but this is the HUGE point you are missing in my message to you – YOU AREN’T SELLING A PRODUCT, YOU ARE SELLING YOU. Let me say that again: You aren’t selling a product, you are selling YOU. In other words, you’re selling your lifestyle. You’re selling your message. You’re selling your beliefs. You’re not pushing them on people, but you are showing up and LIVING that message, those beliefs, that lifestyle, and by doing so, you’re essentially selling those things to your community. And that,...
by Cassie Howard | Aug 8, 2016 | Making Money |
12 years ago I entered the adult industry as a “cam girl”. Every day, I would spend my time taking my clothes off for strangers, in exchange for gifts and cash. It was unpredictable, but I found it thrilling and fun, so I did it for years, until I “upgraded” to becoming a “solo girl”, which meant I had my own website that was updated with new content almost daily. Members paid a monthly fee to receive photos, videos, journal entries, and live webcams of myself and myself & my then boyfriend (now husband). I made a ton of money doing this, and I also truly loved it. I live for the thrill and “porn” (if you want to call it that) is certainly thrilling. But it did come with quite a bit of negativity. I was always brought up to believe that nudity and sex were private and not something you shared with the world, so I didn’t tell anyone what I did. Of course, my immediate family found out and they were NOT happy. There was a lot of negativity. I learned early on that I had to trust my gut, to be who I am, regardless of who disagrees, and to do what made me happy and feel alive. So I did. Eventually my family gave up trying to convince me I was ruining my life. I was able to live as my true self, and when I did, my business took off and soon I was featured on some of the top websites in the biz. After a few years, I got bored of the industry...
