I haven’t been sleeping much lately, and I just figured out why…

I haven’t been sleeping much lately, and I just figured out why…

For the last week or so, I’ve had some crazy insomnia, or what I THOUGHT was insomnia. Falling asleep was easy, but then I would wake up every few hours, without fail, and just lie there, unable to fall back asleep. I thought it was what I was eating, so I changed my diet up a bit. Didn’t work.I thought it was because my evening routine was chaotic, so I made it more relaxing. Didn’t work.I thought it was because I was sleeping too much, so I tried sleeping less. Didn’t work. It wasn’t until this morning, when I was up at 5am again, after only 4 hours of sleep, that I realized I was waking up because I was EXCITED. Excited to start my dayExcited to work on my businessExcited to unleash my offeringsExcited to speak to my tribeExcited to learn and implementExcited to freakin’ UPLEVEL When I realized that each morning all I thought about when I woke up was my clients and how I could better serve them, my offers and how I could sell more of them, my community and how I could nurture it, my business and how I could streamline it –  When I made that realization, it was pretty damn obvious. My body is telling me it’s time to uplevel, and part of that process means sleeping less and working more. Because the work I’m doing is actually FUN and not draining, I am EXCITED about working each day. So the less sleep thing doesn’t bother me. In fact, as much as I love the physical act of resting, I’ve always hated...
How I added THOUSANDS of leads to my list

How I added THOUSANDS of leads to my list

I used to think that all I needed to be successful online was amazing content.  You know the whole “when you show up, they will find you” type of belief. It took me years to realize that I needed to do more than be amazing and give great value. You can’t just put out fantastic content, give value, show up, be visibile –  That’s part of it, yes. But you also have to make sure you actually put yourself IN FRONT of your people. Because no, they will not find you on their own.  I don’t care how amazing your content is. If I don’t know who you are, I’m not buying shit from you.  Want to get rich? Get famous? Make an impact? Then you need to SHOW UP on purpose. What I mean by that is that you need to do whatever it takes to be in front of as many people as possible, all the time. Yes, numbers matter. The bigger your audience, the bigger your bank account. It’s simple math.  We’re so damn lucky to be entrepreneurs in this day and age because we have the powerhouse that is social media. We don’t have to spend tens of thousands of dollars on a 30 second TV ad. Or multiple thousands for an ad in a shitty magazine that end up littering doctor’s offices. You can become a fucking star OVERNIGHT thanks to social media.  Yes, you need to have talent. Yes, you need to be amazing at what you do. And yes, you need to consistently get up and grund every day. But with social media...
THIS trumps all. You will never succeed & grow your business without this one thing.

THIS trumps all. You will never succeed & grow your business without this one thing.

When you have passion –  You know that you can never stopYou know that you are making a difference You know that you are doing the right thingYou know that you will succeed no matter whatYou know that you are special and DIFFERENT from the rest When you have passion –  You do the work, all the work, and you never complainYou show up and give 110% every single day of the weekYou make sacrifices and break promises and fuck shit upYou don’t ever take no for an answer and you continue to push forwardYou can’t be told you’re not good enough or that your dreams are impossible to achieve When you have passion, you have EVERYTHING. You don’t need to be ACCEPTED by anyone. You don’t need to ask permission. You don’t need to make excuses.  You just get up, every day, and do the work you were called to do. You show up, and we listen. You show up, and we learn. You show up, and we buy.  Every day I get messages and emails from women telling me they need help with their business.  They ask me –  “How can I get more people to buy my offer?”“How do I know what to price this new program at?”“What do I say to this woman who just said NO to me?”“How do I handle the “I can’t afford it” objection?”“How often should I promote an offer before pulling the plug?” And the most common question of all –  “How can I make more money in my business?“ And every day, I do my best to answer as many...
I have a question for you

I have a question for you

WHAT DOES SUCCESS *REALLY* MEAN TO YOU? No seriously. Think about it.  When you hear the word “success”, what do you imagine? What comes up for you? For me –  Success means living life on my own termsSuccess means traveling first class all the timeSuccess means giving back to others that need itSuccess means doing work that I truly love and nothing elseSuccess means being available for my family, alwaysSuccess means never having to say NO to an opportunity I wish to say YES to, but can’tSuccess means making millions of dollars every year, and impacting the lives of millions moreSuccess means living in my dream home on the waterSuccess means spoiling my friends & family all the timeSuccess means calling the shots and doing things MY way In all honesty, success is what I’m after. I’m not here to be mediocre. I wasn’t put on this earth to just “get by”. I’m here to succeed, and to thrive, and to live my life full of passion and purpose.  Success is what we’re all after, but why is it that some people seem to achieve success quicker than everyone else? What makes these people so special? I’ll tell you –  Successful people make sacrificiesSuccessful people get up early, even on weekendsSuccessful people are always investing in themselvesSuccessful people happily do the work every daySuccessful people don’t take no for an answerSuccessful people are obsessed with getting resultsSuccessful people will do what it takes, no matter what The true hustlers, the one who know success is a non-negotiable for them, that they are here to achieve success at whatever cost,...
How to be the STAR of every party and earn money like a badass

How to be the STAR of every party and earn money like a badass

Here’s something for you to imagine – WHEN YOU GET TO THE PARTY AND EVERYONE’S LIKE “UH, WHO IS SHE?” Dun dun dun. No one knows who you are. Which makes you unapproachable, which leaves you broke. You don’t want to be the person who shows up to a party (online OR offline) only to be completely ignored because no one has a damn clue who you are. Now, I’m not saying that if you’re new to the scene and you start showing up that people will ignore you. There are nice people in the world that will welcome you with open arms. But those open arms don’t translate to fists full of cash. Not right away, anyway. That’s why it’s so important to practice the ART of showing up. When I first started coaching, my initial plan to was to DOMINATE the industry. I wanted to be on every social media platform, in every group, in everyone’s inbox. The goal was to FLOOD their screens with me and my message. Did I do that? In a sense. But I lost steam because I didn’t know how to show up properly. And so, I spent over a year trying to figure out how the hell to show up as ME, and make money from doing so (instead of just giving all my shit away for free and then asking people to hire me). Thankfully, I’ve figured it out. You don’t get to choose when to show up if you want to make an impact. You don’t get to choose when to show up if you want to make amazing...